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Another Great Post for Newbies to read by mchercheur

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Last post by Suekl at 5:56 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2026 Total messages: 232

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Tactical Primer by SerJR

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Newbies...Important Information - Please Read by SI Staff

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The Simplified 180 by SerJR

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Last post by sisoon at 4:18 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 Total messages: 162

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Before you say reconcile...Recover! by yearsofpain25

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Last post by sisoon at 4:17 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 Total messages: 172

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Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS by lordhasaplan?

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Last post by sisoon at 4:16 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 Total messages: 498

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Great Posts for Newbies to Read by ThriveNotSurvive

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Last post by sisoon at 4:16 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 Total messages: 682

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honey, they always affair down... by Edie

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Before You Say Reconcile... by Fighting2Survive

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History repeats itself by 456tree456

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So angry at OW by 456tree456

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Last post by BondJaneBond at 7:09 AM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 Total messages: 37

 

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Worst Christmas Present Ever by CancerOfTheEmotions

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Found out days before our anniversary by Worriedhusband

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I was not prepared for this ... by portusus

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I'm not sure what to do... by Sadguy78

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Last post by WoodThrush2 at 5:43 PM on Wednesday, January 21st, 2026 Total messages: 41

 

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This feels like the worst betrayal and D-Day I have ever heard of (Oct.18th- 27th) by Gemmy

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Last post by NukeZombie at 7:18 PM on Tuesday, January 20th, 2026 Total messages: 53

 

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I Found Out Thanksgiving by TheGargoyle

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No idea what to do by Brokenthoughts

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Last post by Pogre at 6:06 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2026 Total messages: 135

 

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Ongoing cheating what should I do? by Gemstone333

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Fiancée came home crying on Friday by Fergus1227

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Last post by Formerpeopleperson at 6:47 PM on Friday, January 16th, 2026 Total messages: 34

 

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15 years later...whammo! ...how do I live now? by ErinHa

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One year after I was doing everything to save my marriage I found out why it wasn’t working by Dantest

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Last post by Littlepuppet at 11:24 AM on Wednesday, January 14th, 2026 Total messages: 26

 

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How should I reach out to wife's affair partner's wife? What do I say? by TrashPanda7

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Last post by WoodThrush2 at 8:49 PM on Tuesday, January 13th, 2026 Total messages: 53

 

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Trickle truth only admits when confronted about escorts by jxsjac1234

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DDay 2 by nrtd

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