Lurkingsoul12 ( member #82382) posted at 9:31 PM on Friday, May 19th, 2023
Devon99uk: thanks for the response. I agree with your reasoning.
Since historically and universally, looks, profession and wealth are used to measure the worth and value of a person, many BS would find it very difficult to understand the true meaning and depth of this 'affair down' concept.
Edie (original poster member #26133) posted at 10:21 AM on Monday, May 22nd, 2023
Is affair down for both the cheaters or is it down for one and up for others??
They affair down from their BS is the primary message of the OP but also in looking for admiration reflected back at them, it makes sense they choose a AP in such a surface way.
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.