Newest Member: Taikor


Agency restored?

First of all, what is this AGENCY in the context of infidelity?? What does 'having back your agency' mean in the context of infidelity?

When do you consider your agency was fully restored to make one of the most important and difficult choices of your life, i.e., to choose between R or D??

1. Is it when you found out about the affair?
2. Is it when you gathered enough info/truth about the affair and the nature of it?
3. Is it when you were in the acceptance stage of grief and were emotionally stable because of physical and/or emotional distance from your WS manipulation or gaslighting attempts?

Is it automatically restored, or does BS need to work towards restoring it? If it's the latter, then what should the BS do to restore their agency? Also, what should WS do to help restore the agency of their BS?

4 comments posted: Wednesday, August 23rd, 2023

Need relationship advice and blessings...

I posted this in general forum.

0 comment posted: Monday, March 6th, 2023

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