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Just Found Out :
Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS

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cantaccept ( Member #37451) posted at 1:22 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7101320
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brkn_heartd ( Member #30396) posted at 4:31 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015

bump

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

posts: 2093   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2010   ·   location: Northwesten US
id 7109454
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devotedman ( Member #45441) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015

bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post

Me: 2xBS b 1962
xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

posts: 5092   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2014   ·   location: Central USA
id 7112904
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 1:34 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7125755
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 12:28 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7142558
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oldtimer97 ( Member #2365) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, March 20th, 2015

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“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou

To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.

posts: 3420   ·   registered: Oct. 7th, 2003   ·   location: Sunny Arizona
id 7157532
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 10:25 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7172277
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Ginny ( Member #43196) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015

Bump

BW49
FWH50
DDay 11-02-13
Married 30 years
2 month PA/EA with COW
DS28
Trying to R

posts: 1027   ·   registered: Apr. 22nd, 2014
id 7173647
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 10:03 AM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2015

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 7186403
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:12 AM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7192460
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:21 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7208755
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 8:26 PM on Wednesday, May 20th, 2015

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"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 7226534
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Opinionsplease ( Member #47624) posted at 8:29 PM on Sunday, May 31st, 2015

I like this

You enforce your boundaries, they decide with their actions if they want the relationship.

posts: 1112   ·   registered: Apr. 22nd, 2015
id 7237768
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:25 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7244522
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 10:24 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7272856
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2015

bump

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 7314682
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StillLivin ( Member #40229) posted at 5:30 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7325798
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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 3:00 PM on Sunday, September 6th, 2015

BUMP

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7338408
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:16 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7362964
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015

bump

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7374607
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