Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love by D. Tennov
Just started this and it seems _fascinating_.
The feelings of being "in love" versus "loving", the 'need' for some sort of obstacle (like a marriage, anyone?) for the limerical feelings to develop, the unbalanced nature of limerant/non-limerant relationship participants, all just screams (to me at least) of what we call the "fog", the ILYBINILWY statement, etc.
Wow. Just, wow. Gotta get back. A real page-turner!
4 comments posted: Sunday, January 25th, 2015