minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:05 PM on Friday, December 30th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 3:26 AM on Sunday, January 8th, 2017
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 1:27 PM on Thursday, January 12th, 2017
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 7:20 PM on Tuesday, February 7th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:25 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 3:34 AM on Thursday, March 2nd, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 7:52 PM on Friday, March 17th, 2017
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:29 PM on Saturday, April 8th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:10 PM on Sunday, April 30th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:18 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, July 11th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:25 PM on Thursday, July 27th, 2017
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:25 PM on Friday, August 18th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 12:34 PM on Monday, August 21st, 2017
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 3:05 PM on Monday, August 21st, 2017
LHAP
This is such an insightful post. Thank you. Bump
Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012
Me BS 58
Him WH 59
Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018
Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 11:08 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:42 PM on Saturday, September 23rd, 2017
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:25 PM on Wednesday, October 18th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:15 PM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 2:04 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2017
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
