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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:36 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5520519
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1109mama ( New Member #33790) posted at 4:08 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011

Thanks for posting this. It has a lot of helpful info

BS (me)- 28
SA FWH (him)- 29
D-day #1 (part of the story) 7/5/11
D-day #2(the WHOLE story) 7/11/11
Married 4 1/2 yrs, together 5 yrs.
Working on R..
~What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!~

posts: 19   ·   registered: Oct. 31st, 2011
id 5520627
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notsosureanymore ( Member #18051) posted at 7:10 PM on Saturday, November 5th, 2011

so I can come back later when time allows.

posts: 221   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2008
id 5520830
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, November 11th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5530300
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nutmegkitty ( Member #33882) posted at 9:46 PM on Thursday, November 17th, 2011

Bumping again. This post is getting me through every day.

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

posts: 4388   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2011   ·   location: MA
id 5540247
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:00 AM on Friday, November 25th, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5550921
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 3:59 PM on Saturday, November 26th, 2011

bump

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
id 5552181
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:16 PM on Tuesday, November 29th, 2011

bump

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 5557956
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 4:44 PM on Wednesday, November 30th, 2011

Great for us newbies

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5559093
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 7:03 AM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5569317
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

bump for Twang

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5570198
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, December 8th, 2011

bump

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5574137
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emptyheart ( Member #18873) posted at 4:27 PM on Sunday, December 11th, 2011

bump

Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11, 2009

posts: 1143   ·   registered: Mar. 28th, 2008
id 5578698
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sudra ( Member #30143) posted at 4:05 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2011

bump

Me (BW) (58), Him(SAWH) (61)
Married 24 years, 1 son (22), 1 stepdaughter (30)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

posts: 1874   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2010
id 5579633
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 6:15 AM on Friday, December 16th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5587560
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 4:40 AM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

bump for all the newbies

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5594085
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 7:04 AM on Friday, December 23rd, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5599354
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 1:05 AM on Sunday, January 1st, 2012

bump

Happy New Year!

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
id 5612281
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 5:12 AM on Wednesday, January 4th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5617612
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:22 AM on Friday, January 6th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5621689
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