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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 12:02 AM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5628341
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 9:15 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2012

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 5634956
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 6:26 AM on Sunday, January 15th, 2012

bump..

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5638181
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 7:11 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5644314
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 6:05 AM on Monday, January 23rd, 2012

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 5651828
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:31 PM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012

bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5654433
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 8:20 AM on Tuesday, February 7th, 2012

Bump

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 5678046
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 10:18 AM on Monday, February 13th, 2012

Bumping again

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 5689511
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BrokenHeart2012 ( Member #34776) posted at 3:17 PM on Monday, February 13th, 2012

Thrive Not Survive, I am looking for a post that I saw the other day. It was one on regret/guilt vs. remorse. It is in 2 columns. I cannot seem to find it now. I do not know if it is from SerJR or where I saw it at first. I have been reading so much. I know it was not on the Q&A or in the library anywhere. Thank you for your assistance.

BS - 42
WS - 44
D-Day - 1/11/12 Via email

posts: 142   ·   registered: Feb. 10th, 2012
id 5689820
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2012

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 5692709
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 1:07 AM on Thursday, February 16th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5695247
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, March 1st, 2012

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 5720362
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 5:11 PM on Saturday, March 3rd, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5724310
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fourever ( Member #30631) posted at 2:02 PM on Monday, March 5th, 2012

Bump

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

posts: 917   ·   registered: Jan. 4th, 2011   ·   location: Northeast
id 5726336
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Rain02 ( Member #34238) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, March 5th, 2012

Bump

Use the pain as a fuel,as a reminder of your strength.

posts: 233   ·   registered: Dec. 17th, 2011
id 5727183
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 7:04 PM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 5730699
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SuperDuperWonderboy ( Member #34716) posted at 3:38 AM on Friday, March 9th, 2012

bump

My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.

posts: 1356   ·   registered: Feb. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Everett
id 5733768
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 11:18 PM on Saturday, March 10th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5736590
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5751805
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5763033
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