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homewrecked2011 ( Member #34678) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, July 6th, 2012

great post!

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

posts: 5360   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2012
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SuspiciousWife ( Member #18108) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012

Bumping

Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

posts: 557   ·   registered: Feb. 8th, 2008   ·   location: East Coast
id 5919701
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LostMySoulMate1 ( Member #31833) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012

Thankyou for the Great Posts so very helpful.

ME:BW42 HIM:WS40 MARRIED19years 2Teens DdayFeb2009.

posts: 316   ·   registered: Apr. 11th, 2011   ·   location: Australia
id 5920179
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aesir ( Member #17210) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Bump

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

posts: 14924   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2007   ·   location: Winnipeg
id 5941321
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pendant ( Member #32890) posted at 6:24 AM on Thursday, July 26th, 2012

bump

"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

posts: 424   ·   registered: Jul. 25th, 2011   ·   location: North Carolina
id 5943588
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, July 30th, 2012

bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5949183
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 9:14 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5951030
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 12:51 AM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

Bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 5955661
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katherine41 ( Member #5792) posted at 5:02 AM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

Bumping for Justjul.

posts: 8212   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2004
id 5959731
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:28 PM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5967031
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 12:41 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5974335
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aesir ( Member #17210) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, August 18th, 2012

Sadly, there is always a fresh need for these.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

posts: 14924   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2007   ·   location: Winnipeg
id 5978241
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 12:34 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 5991671
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scangel3 ( Member #36164) posted at 4:43 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

wish i had read this 2 year ago!!!

BS-me 31, WH-31, M'd-10 years
DD 10, DS 7, DS 6.5
Dday 03/01/10 (our DD's bday)
A ended 08/31/10-09/02-10 (with multiple ddays in between).TT on 08/2012, 09/04/12, 11/16/2012, 01/2013, 6/25/2013 Says he wants R, but not proving it

posts: 718   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2012   ·   location: Portland
id 5992041
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 3:55 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 5999074
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 4:40 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6000311
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 8:57 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6009910
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 4:10 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6011049
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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 2:55 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 6013848
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, September 14th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6018882
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