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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:03 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013

and bump again

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6163369
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mountainmomma ( Member #34388) posted at 6:27 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Bumpity bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

posts: 180   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: U.K
id 6166261
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 3:02 AM on Saturday, January 12th, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6173696
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thisissogross ( Member #30294) posted at 5:27 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2013



i edit frequently because i have to

posts: 364   ·   registered: Dec. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: southern us
id 6181480
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Rella ( Member #21136) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2013

BUMP!

Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!

posts: 2208   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2008   ·   location: New England
id 6183431
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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 5:45 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6185133
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

Bumpin' for newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6198038
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 5:09 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6212658
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needrespect ( Member #37951) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, February 12th, 2013

Bump

BS-me 45
WH-40
married 11 yrs, together 15
DS13 DS9
Dday May 2012 EA
False R... Dday#2 11/30/2012 PA same MOW

The opposite of love is not hate ... It is indifference.
Status:%$$&^&^$#@@
seems I'm on the 15 year plan

posts: 73   ·   registered: Dec. 31st, 2012
id 6216096
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, February 13th, 2013

newbees!

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6219141
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exhausted lady ( Member #30217) posted at 11:04 PM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2013

Bump

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

posts: 3171   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2010   ·   location: Colorado
id 6232466
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:24 PM on Friday, March 1st, 2013

Weekend Bumps for Newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6240102
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, March 10th, 2013

Bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6251100
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Rella ( Member #21136) posted at 10:53 PM on Sunday, March 10th, 2013

Bump

Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!

posts: 2208   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2008   ·   location: New England
id 6251921
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Lowlow ( Member #38653) posted at 6:59 AM on Monday, March 11th, 2013

Best post, ever! I will refer to it often as I recuperate

Me (BS) 41 Him (FWS) 42 at time of confession

Reconciling

posts: 879   ·   registered: Mar. 7th, 2013   ·   location: Neither here nor there
id 6252382
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thisissogross ( Member #30294) posted at 8:58 AM on Friday, March 15th, 2013



i edit frequently because i have to

posts: 364   ·   registered: Dec. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: southern us
id 6258585
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:53 AM on Thursday, March 21st, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6266236
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6273691
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Jospehine85 ( Member #35971) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

bump

Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012

posts: 1598   ·   registered: Jun. 28th, 2012
id 6276915
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013

Another regular bump for this great article/thread/eye opener!

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 6285504
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