Newest Member: girlangry89

Just Found Out :
Great Posts for Newbies to Read

default

Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 4:01 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6399022
default

kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:47 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6407238
default

Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:46 PM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6414990
default

pmal64 ( Member #13551) posted at 2:59 PM on Monday, July 22nd, 2013

bump

.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-55
WH -60
"when they show you who they are, believe them"

posts: 588   ·   registered: Feb. 5th, 2007   ·   location: down south
id 6416232
default

AFrayedKnot ( Member #36622) posted at 2:12 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013

Bump

BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
id 6419894
default

HurtButHopeful? ( Member #25144) posted at 1:08 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013

bump for livebythesea

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

posts: 1735   ·   registered: Aug. 12th, 2009
id 6426646
default

Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 6:56 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6433479
default

Pedalguy4800 ( New Member #40140) posted at 7:43 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2013

bump

Me-BS 37
Her-WS 34
D-Day July 21, 2013

posts: 7   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2013   ·   location: Ogden, utah
id 6433949
default

bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 4:58 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6436263
default

kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:14 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013

Bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6442310
default

kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:48 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6444348
default

Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 2:30 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6455256
default

jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

boomp

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6464071
default

fourever ( Member #30631) posted at 3:15 AM on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013

BUMP! Read this!

In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!

posts: 917   ·   registered: Jan. 4th, 2011   ·   location: Northeast
id 6472036
default

kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:06 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

bumperdoodle

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6474599
default

Blackhair ( Member #39451) posted at 4:39 AM on Friday, September 6th, 2013

Bump!

M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

posts: 203   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2013   ·   location: Canada
id 6475974
default

Broken6 ( Member #40347) posted at 2:58 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013

Bump. This should be a self help book. So good to read.

The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.

posts: 58   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2013
id 6477423
default

Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6494797
default

forlornheart ( Member #40726) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013

Must keep and reread daily! Amazing information in here!

Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013

posts: 52   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2013   ·   location: Michigan
id 6495447
default

Camalus ( Member #40199) posted at 6:41 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Bumping because this is a 'must read'.

Me–BS age 61
Her -- WS age 59
Married for 34 years
One child, 30yrs

Her 'A' 1994(?) through 1998
D-Day 7/4/2013 Yes, I didn't find out for almost 15 years... but the pain is just as bad as if she were with him last week.

posts: 162   ·   registered: Aug. 6th, 2013   ·   location: Near Houston Texas
id 6498855
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.000.20210918 2002-2021 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy