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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 10:05 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6500593
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hard_yards ( Member #23549) posted at 4:18 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

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I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
id 6509391
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HurtButHopeful? ( Member #25144) posted at 6:26 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

Bumping for maddmurph.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

posts: 1735   ·   registered: Aug. 12th, 2009
id 6519984
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 6:14 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6521059
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 12:40 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013

Bumping for a newbie.

Take what you need and leave the rest. Great, great advice in here.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 6525499
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

bumping

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6528504
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Drowninginitall ( Member #40968) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

Just what I needed. Thanks for keeping this up!

BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16

posts: 280   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2013
id 6528592
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Drowninginitall ( Member #40968) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

Just what I needed. Thanks for keeping this up!

BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16

posts: 280   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2013
id 6528594
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

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Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6531894
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:04 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6533511
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 2:31 AM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

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posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6537807
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 5:01 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6546929
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catatonic ( Member #40758) posted at 6:14 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Great reference

posts: 116   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2013
id 6546979
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Lionne ( Member #25560) posted at 8:48 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

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Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

posts: 8391   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2009   ·   location: In my head
id 6549739
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6552929
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013

Bump

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6556259
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Rabecca ( Member #41076) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013

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D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

posts: 63   ·   registered: Oct. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: Rabecca
id 6559443
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013

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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6560529
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 4:02 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013

bump for Lost Samurai

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6561631
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013

Bump to help through a Friday night.

Take care of yourselves my friends.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6571975
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