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Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

Heart disease in 35 year old

DS2. 35. Wife is 4 months pregnant. Chest pains for 2 days, ignored until day 2. Troponin levels as high as 10, balloon catherization done, Widowmaker artery 100% blocked. Another artery also 100% blocked but they left it alone...
He's overweight, eats high fat, barbecue, drinks too much, imo, doesn't exercise. But all his vitals signs have been just a little elevated, doctors haven't even put him on statins or bp medication.
Very, very scared right now.
He lives 8 hours away, I'm leaving early tomorrow to put eyes on him.
Prayers and mojo requested!!!

24 comments posted: Monday, January 9th, 2023

My personal philosophy is being challenged

by my new therapist. And I need the feedback from the wise people here. We haven't started EMDR yet, still working on background.

When I was very young I was told by a Baptist minister that my Jewish daddy would burn in hell if he didn't accept Jesus as his personal savior. I was seven and going to the church all by myself. I went home and hid under my bed. I cried and thought and thought and figured out in my head that God wouldn't punish my daddy because he was raised in a different culture. He was a good man and God would see that. And besides, Jesus was Jewish, wasn't he? From that belief grew the belief that EVERYONE had the capacity to be good and that evil acts were perpetrated by people who were sick, and God would surely forgive those people too.

I did/do use this philosophy to justify much of my husband's nasty behavior towards me. Through therapy and 12 steps and this site, I've learned to not accept this behavior, but I still do believe that his mental health issues caused him to act in negative ways.

That's not to say I accept these behaviors. I found a religious group for whom this is a basic tenet. We believe there is "that of God in every person" and that we need to look for that LIGHT. We don't deny evil acts, don't deny that punishment and restitution is important, but do believe that good exists, somewhere in that person.

My therapist said I'm taking advice from that 7 year old. And some people ARE just evil. I am perfectly capable of agreeing to disagree and still work with her.

So what do you good people say? Are my beliefs that of a naive 7 year old or of a mature 68 year old optimist?

19 comments posted: Thursday, November 17th, 2022

Autumn Leaves

I'm making a concerted effort to find joy. And Mother Nature is surely cooperating! The leaves in my suburban neighborhood are just glorious! There are maples that still have green on the interior while the exterior ones are iridescent orange and red. The oaks and lindens are saffron and lemon colored and the tulips and sycamores are crimson.
Take a look as you travel around. They won't be there long!

PS raking them isn't as much fun as admiring them!

6 comments posted: Tuesday, October 25th, 2022

I finally took a necessary step-emdr

I've been here forever. And I debated whether to post here or in General. I don't know if we have ever truly reconciled or simply become complacent.
I'm not going to rehash my whole H is a bipolar sex addict, mostly porn that escalated to strip clubs and EAs, lots of flirting and nasty porn. I've had therapy and nauseum. I understand why he went that way, his mental illness, childhood sexual abuse, FOO issues set him up for this method of coping. I wouldn't say he's cured, but ongoing therapy helps him along with medication and fear that he'll lose his family at 71. I don't think he's using porn but he could be. I have no reason to think he's doing anything in RL, we are rarely apart.
But all those years he treated me terribly. I was the scapegoat. I did nothing right. I spent all my energy trying to fix all the things that he claimed I did wrong. I neglected my kids, myself. I fixated on it. I convinced myself that he didn't mean to treat me that way, that he was stressed by his career challenges. I was the proverbial frog in the pot, gradually getting used to increasing abuse coupled with periods of love bombing.
It was trauma. Repeated trauma and it mimicked my own childhood trauma.
I am a healthy person with a TON of auto immune issues. I just know they are a result of repeated trauma. I am an optimistic person, capable of finding beauty in a cloud, in a single autumn leaf, finding joy in being in the in the moment, especially in the blessed times I spend with my precious granddaughter, with my lovable cats, in my beautiful back yard.
But I am so incredibly, insanely, enormously ANGRY! I was cheated out of my story, cheated out of a normal sex life, cheated out of the experience of loving and being loved by a partner even while I THOUGHT I was building a life together. I sleep terribly, and when I lie awake, all the angry thoughts come to the forefront. I react when he compliments me, thinking about the nasty insults he threw at me, the many criticisms he was quick to list, etc. The lizard part of my brain is still in high alert.
I scheduled my first EMDR session with a therapist who comes highly recommended.
I'm finally doing something for me.

11 comments posted: Tuesday, October 18th, 2022

"Difficult Day" by A.A. Milne.

"Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh.

There was a pause.

"Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet.

"No," said Pooh after a bit. "No, I don't think I do."

"That's okay," said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend.

"What are you doing?" asked Pooh.

"Nothing, really," said Piglet. "Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don't feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either.

"But goodness," continued Piglet, "Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you've got someone there for you. And I'll always be here for you, Pooh."

And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs...he thought that his best friend had never been more right."
A.A. Milne

Sending thoughts to those having a Difficult Day today and hope you have your own Piglet to sit beside you

I am very very grateful to all of you Piglets that sit by me and have sat by me on my own difficult days. I don't have that in RL. You are a blessing to me.

9 comments posted: Wednesday, October 12th, 2022

I think I have covid.

I'm a lot sicker with a sore throat, headache, fatigue, etc., than I've ever been with a summer cold. Tested negative, will test again daily.
Anyway, do I need treatment other than fluids, rest, Tylenol, salt water gargle, etc? I'm 68, in generally good health, history of asthma but no symptoms for at least 8 years or so.
I'm a bit wary of pavalox, and know nothing about monoclonal antibodies

18 comments posted: Friday, September 23rd, 2022


I have absolutely NO reason to complain. My life is good, my family is healthy, I have enough money to not have to worry. While I am sad and upset that infidelity robbed me of so much of life, I've resigned myself to living with that reality. I refuse to let it define the rest of my life.

But I have had a terrible summer and I am mad at myself for wasting it. I love summer.

I had headaches almost continually from early July through mid August. Medicines have been tweaked and things are better. But I stopped going to the gym, stopped walking (the heat was just unbearable with a headache on top of it) I know I will feel better if I can get back to it.

I tried to go to yoga and wound up tearing the ligaments in my toes. That's right, downward dog into standing forward bend put me on the disabled list. I have lost the upper body strength I had gained. So mad at myself.

I am not sleeping well. I fall asleep and then wake after 2-3 hours and lie awake. Immediately, all the thoughts of the infidelity come back. "He said this! He did this!" "How could he?" on and on. The recurring trauma just replays in my brain. The only thing that wipes it out is to play old tv shows on my Kindle, blocking the image and setting the volume to almost imperceptible. I KNOW I'm not getting good sleep that way but it is the only way to stop the invasive thoughts.

I am on all sorts of medicines, I take too much for recurring and unrepentant GERD, take cymbalta for fibromyalgia (which isn't helped by not exercising), all kinds of on and off label stuff for persistent migraine, take melatonin, but stopped it just wasn't working, baclofen for muscle spasms, allergy meds, thyroid meds, meds for IBS, etc, etc, etc. But I am HEALTHY. I have no digestive issues that pose long term risks, no Barretts, no polyps, I cannot digest milk and often have trouble with gluten and ruffage so I take Beano and lactase at the direction of my doctor, my blood pressure is LOW, all other tests are just fine, stress test showed healthy heart NO cardiac calcium etc. The only "serious" issue I have is osteoporosis which improved with injections of prolia.

I am doing ALL the sleep hygiene stuff I know to do. This has been going on for months.

I take care of my granddaughter a few days a week. She is my savior and my biggest blessing. I have a part time job that is fulfilling and for which I am paid well in currency and appreciation.

I'm 68. Not overweight but 10 lbs heavier than I'm comfortable being. I am depressed and miserable and cannot get my ass moving to do the things I want and need to do. This isn't me.

Any unique wisdom from the wonderful people here?

14 comments posted: Tuesday, August 30th, 2022

50th High School Reunion

I wasn't going to go. $75 seemed like a lot of money to spend on a night with people I didn't remember hearing about lives I had long forgotten about. Plus, Covid. But I went to a pre-event at a bar and was encouraged to show up, so I did. It was a lot of fun.

Nice people, reminiscing about forgotten events. They had left the pettiness and insecurities I remembered behind and the geeky men had grown into their ears and noses and become quite handsome. The women were all sizes, mostly a bit larger and seemed quite happy and comfortable in their bodies. I met up with a childhood friend with whom I shared 45 records and teen magazines when I was probably 9 years old. There was a group of us who lived "across the pike" from the elementary school, which was overcrowded, so we went to school in the basement of the local Baptist church. That's where I met my first crushes, who both were there and admitted that they too had crushes on me. So funny.

Being on this site, I was a bit nervous about any creepy stuff happening, but I didn't perceive any. It was fun and lighthearted and they played great music and the food was good.

Class of about 550, unfortunately about 80 of us didn't live till 2022. crying
Counting my blessings!

5 comments posted: Sunday, August 21st, 2022

Diabetes Insipidus

Anyone here have experience? My DS2 was just diagnosed. MRI showed no tumor but a "thickening of the pituitary stalk." It's apparently surprising enough for the neurologist to write it up for a conference.
Desmopressin has alleviated the symptoms but they still need to figure out the cause. He's scheduled for a repeat MRI in 60 days and a visit to an endocrinologist.
He keeps saying "don't worry Mom," which is, of course, ridiculous, he's my kid.
He's also experiencing headaches, minor, helped with ibuprofen, but he's not a headache guy.
Any information will be appreciated.

2 comments posted: Friday, May 6th, 2022

Need to vent

Family brother and sister grew up in a dysfunctional, alcoholic home. Despite this, we have managed to live relatively "normal" lives, great kids, financially stable, etc. We are close. But we don't share everything, I'm the oldest, I tend to not share my problems while being called upon by my siblings for support. Don't get me wrong, I get support from them at times, but I do often feel like I'm expected to be stronger than everyone else. It's okay, I get support elsewhere.

My sister and her husband are going to Hawaii for a special anniversary. I am so happy for her, I've been there several times and I know she'll love it. I contacted her husband to let him know I wanted to treat her to a lei greeting and so needed to know their flight details. My intention was to have both of them greeted at the airport, but I didn't spell that out because I wanted to maintain a little bit of a surprise. He wrote back a RUDE text, saying that he would do that for them if he wanted and I needed to mind my own business and stop interfering.

I'm pissed. I don't interfere. I keep my mouth shut about things that I see in him that are disturbing. I bend over backwards to make special meals for him as he's on a restrictive diet, drove him to the hospital when he was having surgery, etc. We have diametrically opposed political opinions, I have never challenged him and avoid the discussions. I and another sister single handedly put together a wedding for them years ago. I would NEVER say anything to my sister about all this, he's her husband and she will never hear anything negative about him from me.

I simply wanted to do something nice for my dear sister and her husband. If he had said "thanks, but I'd like to do that for my wife" that would have been fine with me, although I may have chosen instead to send flowers to their room.

I don't get it. Except one clue. Years ago, I referred to my sister as [first name, maiden name, married name] He was incensed, her name wasn't [maiden name]. I said she's always be a [maiden name] and he assured me that she stopped being that when she married him. I dropped it, assuming he's that insecure or old fashioned or something.

I'm trying to maintain my composure and leaning towards praying for him in his obviously paranoid and maybe jealous state of mind, but man, I'm pissed.

11 comments posted: Thursday, April 7th, 2022

Can we talk about leased cars?

Throughout my life I have always driven cars into the ground. My last purchased car was a Mazda Millenia and it died after 300,000+ miles. When we became more financially stable, I started to lease. I loved it. I never had to bleed brakes at 3AM or change alternators in the rain.

My lease is up in June. It is likely to be impossible to lease this same car again, due to the shortages. Unless a dealership pulls it out of a hat, I'll opt to buy this one at a very reasonable residual value. And I'd pay cash.

There is the rub. The local dealership wants me to (briefly) finance and then pay it off in a month or so. They make money on that transaction. In addition, they will charge me for the preparation of the document for the new registration and tags (I'm pretty sure I can do that on my own) and they are charging a $300 "safety check" as well. This seems like a real cash grab.

Has anyone bought out a lease with substantially less hassle and do you have advice for me?


4 comments posted: Wednesday, March 23rd, 2022

Solar power

Our panels went live on January 2nd. I just received our first electric bill and we produced more than we used. Mind you, January was a pretty gloomy weather month.

Our monthly payment of $108 stays that way for 20 years. I'll be dead by then. It's at least $100 less than our typical electric bill. We'll see how it goes when the air conditioning is running in the summer.

We will also be paid a fee for extra power we make, funded by the state.

It was a LONG and complicated process requiring a lot of research.

7 comments posted: Wednesday, February 9th, 2022

Another exposure question

An electrician was here on Friday and Monday. He worked near me on Friday but in the basement on Monday. I masked when I paid him close up, we are all fully vaxxed. He tested positive today after waking up with cold symptoms.
How long do I stay away from people assuming I have no symptoms?

11 comments posted: Thursday, January 13th, 2022

Life Lessons

I don't know how I wound up with 4 indoor cats. Well, I KNOW but it's not really what I wanted or thought I'd ever do. I think it's true that once you have one cat you really can't do without another one, or two, or five.

I officially own 3. The fourth is the sister of my third cat. I am (permanently) fostering her in order to get help from the rescue should expensive medical treatment be needed. She has a ventricular septal defect, the murmur is very loud and audible if you put your ear on her belly. The hole is large, affecting circulation in the worst way possible, and is unlikely to close. I vowed to give her the very best life she could have in whatever time she has.

Other than her relatively small size, and a persistent weepy eye, you'd never know she was sick. She bounces around here with more energy than the others, and is incessantly curious. EVERYTHING is a toy. She's mischievous and intrepid, always the first to investigate new things, and totally fearless. She LOVES playing in the water so I've had to adapt their water bowl to a less messy place. She knows when it's bedtime and squeaks at me to follow her so she can curl up next to me. She taunts the 3x bigger male cat I have who is cranky but surprisingly tolerant. She doesn't like not knowing where I am and her inquisitive squeak is designed so that I'll call her to me.

What a lesson she is teaching! We should all strive to live life like our heart could stop beating at any minute.

3 comments posted: Sunday, November 14th, 2021

Mod please

Somehow my thread in OT was duplicated. Can you please delete the extra one?

1 comment posted: Thursday, October 21st, 2021

Another covid transmission question

We have a new grandbaby. We are being very cautious, masking more frequently than required, avoiding large crowds, etc.
I walk with a friend several times a week, outside, maskless. We are both vaccinated. Her husband just tested positive, tested as part of a pre-op requirement. That was on Thursday. She tested negative on Friday. He's asymptomatic, thank goodness, test was repeated yesterday, still positive.
Do I need to avoid walking with her? Or is it safe to walk masked and with a larger space between us?


7 comments posted: Wednesday, October 20th, 2021

Another covid transmission question

Duplicate post

0 comment posted: Wednesday, October 20th, 2021

Excessive daytime sleepiness

Is this a thing? My 70 year old husband is guaranteed to fall asleep whenever he sits down to watch TV, read a book, and today, holding our new granddaughter. I was right there, he is rarely deeply asleep, but nods off many, many times a day.

Is this a medical condition that needs to be addressed? Or just a normal change of life thing?

He uses a CPAP machine most nights, but I don't really notice a difference between the nights he does and doesn't hook it up...


0 comment posted: Friday, October 8th, 2021

Reality vs a mother's perception

My DIL is being induced tomorrow. That could mean I'll be a Grammy tomorrow or the next day or...we all know how that goes.
My son is 38, she is 34. They are both responsible adults, chose parenthood are both adore children. My son is an RN and very nurturing, he is planning to be the main stay at home parent with tons of family support when he has to work.
I have a tendency to think of them as kids. That they don't really have the skill set to deal with diapers, colic, breast vs bottle, etc. It's nonsense of course. Very few of us were ready for all of that, right? And they are certainly more ready than I ever was.
Anyway. I'm so excited to have this granddaughter, am logically confident in their ability to cope,and am stuffing my concerns even as I plan what meals to take them while they are plunged into this next life phase.
Pray or hold a thought for her, please. She has some physical limitations that make induction the wise choice.

20 comments posted: Tuesday, September 28th, 2021

I need help with my diet

I hate complaining. I'm a lucky woman. I have issues, but what 67 year old doesn't? Sometimes it's beyond frustrating, though.

Two days ago I had a small salad. I spent yesterday in pain, heating pad on my stomach. Today I'm a bit better but not great. This is a regular thing.

Nothing is wrong with my GI tract. Recent colonoscopy and endoscopy. The doc told me to take beano, lactaid, etc. It just seems that each day there are fewer and fewer things I can eat comfortably.

I'm already on a restricted diet because of another non-life threatening condition. I can't eat most fruits, a lot of grains, some vegetables, few condiments and dressings, etc. Dairy bothers me too, but that isn't a new thing. On this diet I can eat honeydew and watermelon, a few apple types, blueberries...but fruit often bothers me. Even cooked vegetables hurt.

I can eat meat, feel great if I only eat beef. I eat HB eggs even though I really don't like eggs. Fortunately my cholesterol is good. But I don't want to gain weight!

How do I insure I get proper nutrition? And certainly, avoiding roughage isn't likely to help my "regularity," also an issue.

Any and all suggestions are appreciated.

6 comments posted: Thursday, September 23rd, 2021

Raunchy text messages

My SAfWh is getting really obnoxious spam text messages. I get spam, but far less and NEVER porn related. Is his previous use of porn on his phone browser the reason for this, or is it just a random thing?

My SAfWH is a very unsavvy tech user. He frequently answers calls that he doesn't recognize. He often clicks on web links that are clearly clickbait. I don't think he has clicked on links sent by text but I wouldn't be surprised if he had. He says he doesn't even see these raunchy texts, he's awful about keeping up with text threads and/or voice-mail, so I believe that is true.

We are using the Verizon messaging app on android phones. It doesn't allow an easy way to block specific phone numbers on the app although it appears easier to do that with phone calls.

I'm assuming he's not currently porn hopping.
Is there a good way to stop them from coming? And more concerning, is there a skanky reason he's getting them?

3 comments posted: Wednesday, September 8th, 2021

Mod Please

Can I get an email when someone has a chance, please?

1 comment posted: Wednesday, September 8th, 2021

Porn texts

Not sure if this is the best place for this question but here goes.
My H is a porn/sex addict in recovery. Maybe. He's not engaged with rl people for a long time but online porn has been a longterm issue. I have no reason to believe he's engaging now but I no longer look.
There are blocking apps and controls on his phone but he definitely was using it for skanky stuff in the past. He's getting a lot of really yucky texts. Now, I get spam texts but never of the XX variety. Why is he? Is it just a random thing?
He's a very unsavvy tech user. He frequently answers calls that he doesn't recognize. He often clicks on web links that are clearly click clickbait. I don't think he has clicked on links sent by text but I wouldn't be surprised if he had. He says he doesn't even see these raunchy texts, he's awful about keeping up with text threads and/or voice-mail.
Assuming he's not currently porn hopping, is there a good way to stop them from coming?

3 comments posted: Tuesday, September 7th, 2021

Flu shot

I always get one in late October. But with a new grandbaby coming in early October I'm wondering if I should get one earlier. Will that immunity carry me through flu season?

2 comments posted: Thursday, August 12th, 2021

Post emergent crabgrass killer

I'm not one to immediately jump to chemicals. But the crabgrass is out of control. I've got a lawn that's not all grass anyway, we've got lots of clover and violets. I have seen my neighbor's lawn turn white with a a chemical that blocks chlorophyll but can't find the name of it. Anybody?

3 comments posted: Wednesday, August 11th, 2021

Sick (?) cat question

My two little foster kitties are still with me. I don't really see an end to their visit as one of them has a large ventricular septal defect. The vet just shook his head when he listened, and has never personally seen this, so no prediction on how long she might have. I've been educated as to what to look for as congestive heart failure is pretty inevitable, eventually. So far I've seen no symptoms at all, her respiration rate remains low and her energy and appetite are the same as her sister's.
These guys came to me at ~1.2 lbs, just 6 weeks old. Their mother was euthanized and I suspect they were partially bottle babies although that wasn't said. The healthy one was pretty regularly trying to nurse on her sister, not all the time and that has slowed down significantly. But recently, the sick one has started sucking her own hair, while kneading and purring. I suspect she doesn't feel well and is trying to comfort herself. Any ideas?

Anyone ever raise a VSD little animal?

4 comments posted: Sunday, August 8th, 2021

Anybody here!?

Not much action tonight. I'm upset about something and thought I needed a pick me up.

Tell me the best holiday jokes you heard this year...

Why was Santa’s little helper depressed?

Because he had very low elf esteem.

2 comments posted: Saturday, January 4th, 2020

Any way to track a dumb phone

My husband is still struggling with inappropriate surfing. He didn't cross the porn line but it's potentially a matter of time. I'm not willing to wait.

So he got himself a dumb phone.

We used to use a tracker on Verizon with dumb phones but they don't even sell dumb phones.

I have Verizon, he has consumer cellular.

Any ideas?

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2 comments posted: Wednesday, November 13th, 2019

What's on your menu?

Memorial day picnics! Summer is on the way!

Our menu

Fresh Jersey strawberries, picked ourselves


Green salad

Pasta salad



Chicken BBQ

Chips and dip

Corn on the cob

Rosemary grilled potatoes

Oreo truffles


Fresh iced tea

Wine and beer

Even though I'm not allowed to eat 2/3 of this, I'm looking forward to it!

3 comments posted: Friday, May 25th, 2018

They are greasing poles in Philly...

My first reaction was that this is a hate crime again Polish people. The I remembered I do live near a city known for stupidity.

This guy could be the poster child.

1 comment posted: Sunday, January 21st, 2018

Willie Nelson

My FB had a link to his new song, Still Not Dead. I'm making it my theme song.

4 comments posted: Sunday, April 30th, 2017

(almost) free books

These are a testament to the bad early days...

All gone!

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1 comment posted: Tuesday, January 17th, 2017

Funny/cute video thread

Mods, is this okay? There used to be one on here. I loved to see the new posts.

If this is continued, please remember the guidelines, no religious, or political videos!

Here's my current favorite. I think she'll give Taylor Swift a run for her money!

12 comments posted: Friday, April 22nd, 2016

My strange new obsession

Dr. Pimple Popper. Website. Fascinating. And I've branched out so I now know how to remove abscess in the abdomen also.

But those people who are NOT medical folks, with their exacto knives, dirty fingers, etc. messing with things that very well may be infectious, MRSA, etc. { shudder }

Judging from the views, I'm not the only one attracted to this stuff. Anyone else willing to own up?

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12 comments posted: Tuesday, March 8th, 2016

Grammies anyone?

I'm loving the music this year. And my man, Jackson Browne, always happy to see him.

He's finally starting to show his age.

I think I need to explore some new artists.

2 comments posted: Monday, February 15th, 2016

The Spiritual Child

Wow. interesting stuff. My DS, 32, a recovering alcoholic and newly diagnosed BP patient says it answers many questions and describes much of what he and other addicts feel as they work their program, that the need for and search for a spiritual life is essential. As a child, he was amazing in his innate empathy, far beyond his years, his ability to see beyond himself, and in worship, (we worship silently) to center himself far faster and more quickly than most adults. I'm not a believer in a corporeal God, but do believe in something transcendent to myself, I allowed my kids to find their own way.

This is an absolutely fascinating read.

0 comment posted: Friday, October 2nd, 2015

Oregon Vacation!

What a beautiful state! We had a wonderful time.

Whale watching, scenic wonderment, seafood. Although I must say, Jersey has you beat on tomatoes...

The dog detects the whales. Barks and lifts one ear.

We gave up on selfies. Enlisted passerbys.

I fell in love with a bunch of different trees.

Rufous Hummingbird

Beautiful vistas

Sunset from our room in a lovely Inn in Yachats

3 comments posted: Thursday, August 6th, 2015

Make your own hologram

I seriously want one, but I'll probably cut off my finger...

0 comment posted: Sunday, August 2nd, 2015

If you crave a very long, multi volume series....

And enjoy speculative fiction mixed with revisionist history, mythology and extrasensory abilities, I strongly recommend an old series I am rereading by Julian May.

The Saga of the Pliocene Exile

(4 books) The Many Colored Land, The Golden Torc, The Nonborn King, The Adversary

The Galactic Milieu Trilogy Jack the Bodiless, Diamond Mask, Magnificat


That is the order in which they were written. Frankly, I think you should read Intervention first, The Pliocene Exile books second, and The Galactic Milieu last.

All are available in Kindle form although some of the transliteration is just awful. I managed to find most of them online at my library and downloaded them that way.

Lots of fun and lots of twists and turns that end up in places you don't expect. And interesting speculation about the future genetic shifts in humanity.

The French Canadians among us will enjoy the allusions and the language.

3 comments posted: Tuesday, May 12th, 2015

Great Holiday Kids' books

The thing I miss the most about retirement is the opportunity to read to kids and tell stories. I do/did dramatic readings of all the books I read aloud, and the one requirement the students had of the new librarian was the she do "funny voices." I have limitations, of course and while reading the first book below, my Yiddish tended to migrate to an Irish brogue, (which I don't do well.)

Anyway, these are a few of my favorite for the December holidays. Hershel for Hanukkah, of course. There are several others of a more serious nature. If you are interested, I can get the names for you. Especially if you are a non-Jewish family interested in expanding your cultural knowledge.

The Bird in Santa's Beard is wonderfully illustrated and explains why there are SO MANY Santas all around.

And my all time favorite is about a boy named Edward, who shows up in more of David McPhail's books, who is in the first grade and JUST CANNOT master reading. His parents insist that the teacher NOT test him but be patient. Edward is worried and worries about it as he falls asleep on Christmas Eve. Well, he wakes up when he hears sounds in the house, and sees that he has JUST MISSED the jolly old man. But, to his dismay, Santa has dropped his book in Edward's living room. Edward, (no dummy after all, he does know how to count to 100 and knows the names of ALL the dinosaurs) cleverly figures out a way to signal Santa, who comes back and asks Edward to accompany him on his journey. Along the way, a magical thing happens, and is told in a way only David McPhail can tell it.

Wonderful story...

0 comment posted: Sunday, December 14th, 2014

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