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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 8:55 PM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6023736
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Steppinglightly ( New Member #36432) posted at 5:47 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

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For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

posts: 35   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2012
id 6030482
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deeplyblue ( New Member #36897) posted at 8:40 AM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

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BS(me):37
WSH: 34
OW: 23
married for 2 1/2 yrs
together for 4 yrs
children : 2
DD 27/7/2012
Status: He wants R, I want S/D.

posts: 33   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2012   ·   location: deeplyblue
id 6031235
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 9:33 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012

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posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6039966
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:14 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6051441
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, October 9th, 2012

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6053949
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 6:18 AM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6059221
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6071131
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:40 AM on Monday, October 29th, 2012

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6079634
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 12:14 PM on Thursday, November 8th, 2012

Fresh bump

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 6092531
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 1:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

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DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6097239
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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 12:26 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012

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BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6105093
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6112144
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cass ( Member #24261) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, November 26th, 2012

bumping again

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
id 6117019
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012

bumpin'

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6135117
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

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posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6145724
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6149931
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SerJR ( Member #14993) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, December 24th, 2012

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

posts: 18506   ·   registered: Jun. 15th, 2007   ·   location: Further North than South
id 6151446
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, December 24th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6151985
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6160687
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