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OnlyLonely ( Member #14326) posted at 7:19 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011

this thread could really help some of our newer members, so I'm bumping.

Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married: 18 years

Status: In R

posts: 7555   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2007
id 5393760
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Feelforgotten ( Member #32929) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011

Thank you

posts: 122   ·   registered: Jul. 28th, 2011
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:19 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011

For (((exhaustedmum)))

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5401811
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5404957
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PositivePrincess ( Member #32743) posted at 7:07 PM on Friday, August 26th, 2011

Wow, this is amazing! So glad you guys bumped this! After reading about the toughest part of infidelity I feel like a warrior woman!

dday - 5/15/2011
"When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more more beautiful. ~Barbara Bloom

posts: 71   ·   registered: Jul. 11th, 2011
id 5406157
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 4:33 AM on Sunday, September 4th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5419764
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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 1:38 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2011

bump

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 5426319
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:09 PM on Friday, September 9th, 2011

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5428182
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4myheart ( Member #21015) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, September 12th, 2011

Bump

(((((to all the newbies))))

"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

posts: 551   ·   registered: Sep. 11th, 2008   ·   location: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
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bumbed ( Member #31024) posted at 12:48 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011

bump for our new friend

I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening

posts: 471   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2011   ·   location: a better place in Michiagn
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2011

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
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Will-I-Ever-Know ( Member #32703) posted at 6:10 AM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011

bump

Me BS: 26
Him FWH: 28
Together: 6 years

DDay #1 June 2010
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year!
In R. :)

WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)

posts: 159   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2011
id 5448458
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SerJR ( Member #14993) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

posts: 18506   ·   registered: Jun. 15th, 2007   ·   location: Further North than South
id 5480023
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 11:55 PM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5481823
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 3:41 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 2:32 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
id 5497798
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grownapair ( Member #33622) posted at 10:26 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011

Glad this was bumped as I needed a re-read to kick me in the backside. Again. Should just print it all out and put it somewhere for quick reference. :-)

BS - me, 40 WH - 42
Kids 8 and 10
Definitely done!

posts: 162   ·   registered: Oct. 14th, 2011   ·   location: UK
id 5498245
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StrgrThanIThght ( Member #33634) posted at 4:29 PM on Saturday, October 29th, 2011

Just found this. So much helpful information in one place. Thanks for compiling it.

Me - BW (40)
Him - FWH (43) (he has earned the "capital" F)
D-Day - Sept 2011
Us: Working concurrently on ourselves and R

posts: 391   ·   registered: Oct. 16th, 2011
id 5508697
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Take2 ( Member #23890) posted at 1:04 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2011

Bump!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

posts: 4432   ·   registered: May. 6th, 2009   ·   location: New England
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 8:10 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5512281
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