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SuspiciousWife ( Member #18108) posted at 4:49 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2011

Bumping

Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

posts: 557   ·   registered: Feb. 8th, 2008   ·   location: East Coast
id 5293871
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Holly-Isis ( Member #13447) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

posts: 11713   ·   registered: Jan. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Just a fool in limbo
id 5300494
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5301916
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 9:55 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Bumping for a newbie.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 5311615
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Rise_Above ( Member #23674) posted at 10:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011

bump

You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch

posts: 14226   ·   registered: Apr. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Chrys a lis
id 5314567
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september7 ( Member #29929) posted at 1:27 AM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

bump, bump, bump!!

Reading it over and over!!

D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me in not the best circumstances, but we're paying for medical school for one kid and college the other.

posts: 156   ·   registered: Oct. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Florida
id 5316572
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 11:12 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5317741
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 5334588
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 4:29 AM on Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5344655
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 2:22 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2011

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5353205
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 11:17 PM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5359213
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 12:17 AM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

bumping in the shadow of my SI hero.

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 5368136
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MrsSprky99 ( Member #32895) posted at 1:54 AM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

Best reading yet....thank you so much to all that played a part in sharing this!!!

BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011

posts: 78   ·   registered: Jul. 26th, 2011   ·   location: Northern IL
id 5368315
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UnsettledOne ( Member #32952) posted at 8:31 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2011

bump

BH 60

posts: 176   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2011   ·   location: Walking toward the light
id 5371559
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 1:51 PM on Friday, August 5th, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5372477
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 12:32 AM on Wednesday, August 10th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5379630
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 2:25 AM on Sunday, August 14th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5386151
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:58 PM on Sunday, August 14th, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5386546
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Llanden ( Member #10402) posted at 1:21 AM on Tuesday, August 16th, 2011

bumpity bump

"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best."

BS 41
DD's 20, 14 and 11

posts: 616   ·   registered: Apr. 15th, 2006   ·   location: New York
id 5388918
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sammie ( Member #7785) posted at 12:36 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011

If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.

"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." ~Ernest Hemingway

posts: 5818   ·   registered: Aug. 3rd, 2005   ·   location: Australia
id 5392950
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