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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:48 PM on Sunday, April 10th, 2011

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posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5177992
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 4:11 PM on Saturday, April 16th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5190098
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5194116
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isadora ( Member #29130) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011

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Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

posts: 4736   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Back home again in Indiana
id 5195406
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 1:49 AM on Sunday, April 24th, 2011

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 5203954
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 5210381
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 2:28 AM on Saturday, April 30th, 2011

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5214328
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5226410
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 4:25 AM on Sunday, May 8th, 2011

bump again

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5227051
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:08 AM on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 5229575
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 2:38 AM on Sunday, May 15th, 2011

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5237451
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nooneeverthought ( Member #20157) posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

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it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

posts: 8494   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2008
id 5254832
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 7:18 AM on Saturday, May 28th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5258925
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Rise_Above ( Member #23674) posted at 6:49 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch

posts: 14226   ·   registered: Apr. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Chrys a lis
id 5272426
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sherran ( New Member #32233) posted at 9:23 AM on Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

thank you :)

Karma will kick him in the arse

BS 34
WH 35
together: 13 yrs
M 2 1/2 yrs
DDay 19/5/11
A & OW - not sure how long?? no answers given

posts: 33   ·   registered: May. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: Australia
id 5274281
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ladies_first ( Member #24643) posted at 4:18 AM on Sunday, June 12th, 2011

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"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

posts: 2144   ·   registered: Jul. 1st, 2009
id 5283045
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punky ( Member #12233) posted at 5:02 PM on Sunday, June 12th, 2011

bumping for cobraadvice and others.

13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.

posts: 11326   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2006   ·   location: A whole 'nother country
id 5283598
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momma3times ( Member #30092) posted at 3:11 AM on Monday, June 13th, 2011

bump for all the newbies!!!

Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11

posts: 76   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2010   ·   location: Southern part of Missouri
id 5284224
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Take2 ( Member #23890) posted at 2:40 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

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"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

posts: 4432   ·   registered: May. 6th, 2009   ·   location: New England
id 5288512
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 4:05 AM on Thursday, June 16th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5289804
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