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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, August 6th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8223330
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 1:18 AM on Saturday, August 25th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8235680
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 8:13 AM on Thursday, August 30th, 2018

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8238714
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 6:10 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8247026
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Twistedsoul ( Member #65672) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2018

Very nice post thanks for the clear thoughts.

Old Soldier Learning to Fight Another War I Didn't Want

posts: 50   ·   registered: Aug. 2nd, 2018   ·   location: Mississippi
id 8247177
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twisted ( Member #8873) posted at 4:58 PM on Monday, September 17th, 2018

Still good advice for every BS.

"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

posts: 4021   ·   registered: Nov. 18th, 2005   ·   location: Oklahoma
id 8249002
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Intown28 ( New Member #66070) posted at 2:15 AM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2018

thanku so much for all the great info

posts: 41   ·   registered: Sep. 3rd, 2018   ·   location: Canada
id 8249283
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8253003
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 6:46 PM on Thursday, November 1st, 2018

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8276986
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 1:38 AM on Saturday, November 3rd, 2018

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8277857
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 9:13 PM on Friday, December 21st, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8302779
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 8309336
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 8:27 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2019

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 8323437
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, February 16th, 2019

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8330529
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 3:36 PM on Tuesday, March 5th, 2019

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8339640
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 2:26 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8369537
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 mchercheur (original poster Member #37735) posted at 2:39 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2019

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Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 8376196
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 mchercheur (original poster Member #37735) posted at 2:38 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2019

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Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 8378387
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 8:41 PM on Saturday, June 1st, 2019

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8386526
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 2:02 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2019

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8402200
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