sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:28 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:03 PM on Tuesday, August 29th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Olderandhappier ( member #75702) posted at 2:54 AM on Thursday, November 9th, 2023
Very helpful. Thank you for such well written advice.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:47 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 4:28 PM on Friday, February 9th, 2024
Webbit ( member #84517) posted at 8:34 AM on Friday, February 23rd, 2024
Wow. I really needed to read this today!!!!
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:09 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Littlepuppet ( member #83426) posted at 7:19 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2024
My vote for the original thread: https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/514479/calling-all-bss/
be the third fixed thread in JFO.
The 10 Commandments.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:33 PM, Tuesday, July 2nd]
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:23 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
betrayed2007 ( new member #85325) posted at 3:44 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2024
Thank you, it's alot to think about and really helps to have it summed up in one place.
Daniella ( new member #85410) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2024
Arcticgirl ( new member #85461) posted at 9:27 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2024
I found this post really helpful.
But also it made me feel the situation is way worse and way more hopeless than I thought.
I feel utter devastation now after reading this.
It seems very very very hopeless.
Please. How does anyone cope?
Seems like anyone would be a fool to try to save their marriage.
Like it’s basically impossible.
Like maybe I needed to see that post. But now what?
Just leave? Destroy my life? Destroy the kid’s lives?
How does anyone survive this?
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:13 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Feelingvunerable ( new member #85593) posted at 10:37 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2025
Thank you for all this advice and guidance... It's only when in that same boat as you guys & finding a support group like this, that you see we are not on our own 🙏 🥰
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:23 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:17 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:45 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
