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Just Found Out :
Another Great Post for Newbies to read

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rtrdad ( member #70901) posted at 4:26 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2019

This was good! Thank you

posts: 113   ·   registered: Jul. 1st, 2019
id 8402653
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 mchercheur (original poster member #37735) posted at 5:25 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2019

BUMP

Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2687   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 8418221
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2019

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8442174
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:52 PM on Thursday, January 9th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8493749
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:25 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8540573
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 4:23 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8567347
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8617795
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8630871
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8658604
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:34 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8668218
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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, August 6th, 2021

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"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

posts: 3913   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2018   ·   location: Louisiana
id 8681890
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 1:44 PM on Sunday, September 12th, 2021

Bump

posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 8688140
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yellowbella26 ( new member #79404) posted at 2:37 AM on Thursday, September 16th, 2021

This is really good and helps me see things in healthy perspective.
BUMP!

posts: 2   ·   registered: Sep. 15th, 2021
id 8688693
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:09 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8717264
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:45 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8729357
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30380   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8741048
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theshockofbetrayal ( new member #80441) posted at 8:48 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2022

I am so grateful this post is visible...it is from so long ago. Very supportive post to this newly aware BS.

theshockofbetrayal

posts: 11   ·   registered: Jul. 20th, 2022   ·   location: FL
id 8745710
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QuitePossible ( member #80726) posted at 8:21 PM on Friday, August 26th, 2022

Thank you so much for posting!

posts: 52   ·   registered: Aug. 26th, 2022   ·   location: East Coast
id 8752415
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QuitePossible ( member #80726) posted at 3:04 PM on Sunday, August 28th, 2022

Incredible post! A must read.

Thanks for sharing.

posts: 52   ·   registered: Aug. 26th, 2022   ·   location: East Coast
id 8752657
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QuitePossible ( member #80726) posted at 8:29 PM on Friday, September 2nd, 2022

Bump

posts: 52   ·   registered: Aug. 26th, 2022   ·   location: East Coast
id 8753614
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