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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:33 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8038319
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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 2:00 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2017

Bump

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8992   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8044337
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worldofpotential ( Member #61244) posted at 9:19 AM on Tuesday, December 12th, 2017

Bump

Me BW (41) WH (47)
ILYBINILWY August 2017 when he walked out
Wreckonciliation 2 weeks later
D-Day November 2017 (OW 25)
On the road to D since I am nobody's plan B

posts: 54   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2017
id 8045303
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:40 PM on Sunday, December 17th, 2017

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8049321
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MsCajunBelle ( New Member #60706) posted at 5:06 AM on Monday, December 18th, 2017

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posts: 40   ·   registered: Sep. 19th, 2017   ·   location: Louisiana
id 8049696
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 8:05 AM on Thursday, December 21st, 2017

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8052317
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:24 PM on Tuesday, December 26th, 2017

Bump.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8055758
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solvay ( New Member #61942) posted at 6:10 PM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2017

Very useful post, thanks.

posts: 19   ·   registered: Dec. 23rd, 2017   ·   location: UK
id 8056354
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 mchercheur (original poster Member #37735) posted at 2:59 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2018

BUMP

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 8060134
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HartShotAt80 ( Member #61909) posted at 9:51 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2018

I can't believe I've missed this post until now. Wonderfully written, thank you dearly for devoting your energy to writing and posting this!

posts: 99   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2017   ·   location: Amarillo, Tx
id 8060441
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:16 PM on Thursday, January 18th, 2018

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8073475
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lostinwy ( Member #61925) posted at 4:42 AM on Friday, January 19th, 2018

Great post. Needed this today.

ME BS: 53
WH: 59
Kids: 2
DDay #1 08/16/17 (OEA)
Dday #2 09/17 (EA w COW)
Dday #3 10/17 (OEA w/COW)

posts: 77   ·   registered: Dec. 21st, 2017   ·   location: United States
id 8074182
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sassylee ( Member #45766) posted at 9:16 PM on Monday, April 2nd, 2018

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My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

posts: 11459   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 8130115
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:14 PM on Wednesday, April 18th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8144519
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, May 1st, 2018

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8154662
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:29 PM on Sunday, May 13th, 2018

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8163983
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 7:44 PM on Saturday, May 26th, 2018

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8173304
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 6:59 PM on Friday, June 15th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8187375
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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 5:40 PM on Saturday, July 14th, 2018

Bump

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8992   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8206600
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2018

ta-da

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8214045
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