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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2013

Bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6552935
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HollyLou ( New Member #41248) posted at 2:12 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

Thanks, very helpful.

BW, 45
WH, 48
D-Day 10/30/13
M: 17 yrs
2 DDs 15, 13
Status: ??

posts: 21   ·   registered: Nov. 5th, 2013   ·   location: MA
id 6553036
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torn2bits ( Member #28376) posted at 3:14 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013

Well now, there you are.

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

posts: 1281   ·   registered: Apr. 26th, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6555765
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 6:32 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6560532
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 4:02 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013

bump

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6561633
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 2:42 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6571973
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tushnurse ( Member #21101) posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013

bump

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 18935   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6574049
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:31 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6583248
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:38 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6585199
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:00 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:00 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Lyonesse ( Member #32943) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013

bump for rosie79

Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
id 6590566
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 12:15 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 3:40 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:53 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6600365
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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 2:40 PM on Saturday, December 21st, 2013

bump

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 1:06 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
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PRNDL ( Member #41927) posted at 12:55 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

Page one please!! Amazing! This can truly save someone from losing their minds.

BH: 36 (me)
WS: 31 / OM: 31
Son: 12
Affair: 1.5 year long 2012
ONS with stranger Feb 2013
D-day #1 March 2013
D-day #2 April 2013
D-day #3 Sept 2013
Affair continued.
Limbo 7 months
Moved out - 180D - NC
Divorced
A over. Defogged. Trying R

posts: 212   ·   registered: Jan. 5th, 2014   ·   location: Tampa Florida
id 6627661
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