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Lola88 ( Member #41540) posted at 2:33 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

Makes so much sense, when not much else does!

posts: 131   ·   registered: Dec. 5th, 2013   ·   location: UK
id 6627782
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6628423
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 8:45 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6630442
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tushnurse ( Member #21101) posted at 8:07 PM on Friday, January 10th, 2014

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 18936   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6633826
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ProbableIceCream ( Member #37468) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

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posts: 881   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012
id 6639469
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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 2:02 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6640533
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brohl5 ( Member #13440) posted at 2:08 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014

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I'm not going to let this define me anymore. He's gone and I couldn't be happier.

You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess.

Breathe, just breathe.

posts: 5674   ·   registered: Jan. 25th, 2007   ·   location: Indiana
id 6642066
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ascian ( Member #40304) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

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Me - BH 41
Her - FWW 38
D-Day: 8/13
Reconciled

posts: 363   ·   registered: Aug. 13th, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6651402
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 11:24 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6662554
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brkn_heartd ( Member #30396) posted at 5:46 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

Bump

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

posts: 2093   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2010   ·   location: Northwesten US
id 6667911
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 1:35 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

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posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6671897
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tushnurse ( Member #21101) posted at 3:49 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

bump

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 18936   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6672065
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 7:47 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

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"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 6672456
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

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"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 6673817
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 1:41 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

Bump.

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6680048
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014

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"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 6682837
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 8:46 PM on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6692638
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norabird ( Member #42092) posted at 5:01 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014

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Sit. Feast on your life.

posts: 4324   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2014   ·   location: NYC
id 6695483
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FaceFacts ( New Member #42464) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014

Thank you! Really helps me to keep a hopeful perspective on the situation when it seems so volatile.

D-day 1/25/14
BH = Me
WW = Her
2 children
Married 20years
Face Facts

posts: 3   ·   registered: Feb. 14th, 2014
id 6695542
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Lyonesse ( Member #32943) posted at 11:22 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014

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Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
id 6716007
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