UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, September 11th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, September 22nd, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
whyme3786 ( member #44713) posted at 5:43 PM on Monday, September 22nd, 2014
Everything perfect or so I thought 8/22/14
D Day 8/23
Filed for divorce grounds adultery 9/4/14
Me BS 46. WS 36
Beautiful Wonderful 5 year old son
Dying ain't a way to make a living boy
EverythingAfter ( new member #44970) posted at 2:42 AM on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014
I needed to read this today. Thank you so much.
Me: 44 bw
Him: 40 wh
At least 6 "escorts" on at least 12 occasions over the last year, not all protected sex, result: herpes, trichmoniasis, possibly hpv.
Status: ? Unknown. trying to R.
helpmegetthrough ( new member #44949) posted at 3:29 AM on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014
Thank you,
I needed this!
I will survive this no matter what the outcome!!
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 3:36 PM on Friday, September 26th, 2014
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 11:20 PM on Monday, October 6th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 1:20 AM on Wednesday, October 22nd, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 7:37 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 2:20 PM on Thursday, October 30th, 2014
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 12:25 AM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2014
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, November 8th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:15 PM on Friday, November 14th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:22 PM on Saturday, November 22nd, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 5:37 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:00 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:33 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
onlytime ( member #45817) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014
Wow. I wish I had read this 8 weeks ago :(
R'd w/ BetterFuture13
T 20+ yrs w/ adult kids 😇 + grands
"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall" ~Nelson Mandela
momentintime ( member #16394) posted at 12:16 AM on Monday, December 8th, 2014
BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd
"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl
Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 3:18 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014
Thank you for this great post!
