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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, September 11th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6942588
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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, September 22nd, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6954395
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whyme3786 ( Member #44713) posted at 5:43 PM on Monday, September 22nd, 2014

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Everything perfect or so I thought 8/22/14
D Day 8/23
Filed for divorce grounds adultery 9/4/14

Me BS 46. WS 36
Beautiful Wonderful 5 year old son

Dying ain't a way to make a living boy

posts: 131   ·   registered: Aug. 31st, 2014
id 6954597
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EverythingAfter ( New Member #44970) posted at 2:42 AM on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014

I needed to read this today. Thank you so much.

Me: 44 bw
Him: 40 wh
At least 6 "escorts" on at least 12 occasions over the last year, not all protected sex, result: herpes, trichmoniasis, possibly hpv.
Status: ? Unknown. trying to R.

posts: 13   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2014   ·   location: California
id 6955260
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helpmegetthrough ( New Member #44949) posted at 3:29 AM on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014

Thank you,

I needed this!

I will survive this no matter what the outcome!!

posts: 19   ·   registered: Sep. 21st, 2014
id 6955297
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 3:36 PM on Friday, September 26th, 2014

BUMP

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6959666
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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 11:20 PM on Monday, October 6th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6969497
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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 1:20 AM on Wednesday, October 22nd, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6984747
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 7:37 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6989256
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 2:20 PM on Thursday, October 30th, 2014

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 6994019
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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 12:25 AM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2014

BUMP

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6997086
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, November 8th, 2014

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7004515
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 11:15 PM on Friday, November 14th, 2014

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7010753
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:22 PM on Saturday, November 22nd, 2014

bumping for weekend

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7019278
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imagoodwitch ( Member #23375) posted at 5:37 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014

Bump

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

posts: 6902   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2009   ·   location: Munchkinland
id 7026521
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cantaccept ( Member #37451) posted at 12:00 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7030048
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 4:33 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014

bump for weekend

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7033135
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onlytime ( Member #45817) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014

Wow. I wish I had read this 8 weeks ago :(

R'd w/ BetterFuture13
T 20+ yrs w/ adult kids 😇 + grands
"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall" ~Nelson Mandela

posts: 6298   ·   registered: Dec. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 7033149
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momentintime ( Member #16394) posted at 12:16 AM on Monday, December 8th, 2014

bump

BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl

posts: 3163   ·   registered: Sep. 29th, 2007   ·   location: New York
id 7034423
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Ready2beFree ( Member #45913) posted at 3:18 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014

Thank you for this great post!

D-Day: 11/10/2014

posts: 69   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2014
id 7039545
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