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homewrecked2011 ( Member #34678) posted at 9:49 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

Thank you for so much information...this helped me

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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homewrecked2011 ( Member #34678) posted at 10:39 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013

bumping this up for the new people here...

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:07 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

bumpsicle

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 7:14 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

bump

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:09 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
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forlornheart ( Member #40726) posted at 1:56 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013

This is exactly what I needed to make sure I'm moving forward but also taking the correct steps

Thanks!

Deb

Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013

posts: 52   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2013   ·   location: Michigan
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Camalus ( Member #40199) posted at 6:42 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Bump

Me–BS age 61
Her -- WS age 59
Married for 34 years
One child, 30yrs

Her 'A' 1994(?) through 1998
D-Day 7/4/2013 Yes, I didn't find out for almost 15 years... but the pain is just as bad as if she were with him last week.

posts: 162   ·   registered: Aug. 6th, 2013   ·   location: Near Houston Texas
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 10:04 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
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hard_yards ( Member #23549) posted at 4:18 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
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HurtButHopeful? ( Member #25144) posted at 6:25 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

Bumping for maddmurph.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

posts: 1735   ·   registered: Aug. 12th, 2009
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 6:13 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Drowninginitall ( Member #40968) posted at 3:47 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Thank you for this. Marking for future reference.

BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16

posts: 280   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2013
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

Bump

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:01 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 2:30 AM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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tushnurse ( Member #21101) posted at 2:50 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

bump bump bump do the bump

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 18935   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
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Lionne ( Member #25560) posted at 8:49 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

bump

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

posts: 8391   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2009   ·   location: In my head
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