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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 12:48 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5974357
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 5991677
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 3:56 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 5999075
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 5999488
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 4:39 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6000306
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 3:07 PM on Monday, September 3rd, 2012

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6001675
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 12:59 AM on Thursday, September 6th, 2012

bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6005837
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 8:55 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6009907
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 4:08 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6011045
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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 2:55 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 6013850
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, September 14th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6018880
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Steppinglightly ( New Member #36432) posted at 1:03 AM on Wednesday, September 19th, 2012

bump

For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

posts: 35   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2012
id 6024082
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 9:56 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6029712
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012

bump

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6039968
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:12 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012

Time to bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6051438
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 9:09 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012

weekend bump.

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6059810
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012

Bump for Newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6071128
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hank9898 ( Member #35405) posted at 6:55 PM on Sunday, December 2nd, 2012

Bump

Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student

posts: 149   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2012   ·   location: Minnesota
id 6124882
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, December 6th, 2012

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6129796
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BrandyT ( New Member #37621) posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, December 6th, 2012

Thank you so much for bumping this Annb! Amazing post!

It really should be a sticky!!

Me- BS
Him- WH
M- 7yrs with two kids 6yrs and 6mths
D Day 1- 10/08/12
Insane month of lies and false R
D Day 2- Last discovery 11/23/12
NC with OW- 11/26/12
3mth sexual and emotional A
Moving forward and working on us.

posts: 46   ·   registered: Nov. 26th, 2012   ·   location: BrandyT
id 6129814
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