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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:30 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012

bumpin'

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:36 PM on Friday, December 14th, 2012

bump

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Williesmom ( Member #22870) posted at 4:41 PM on Saturday, December 15th, 2012

bump

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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shafted77 ( New Member #37806) posted at 2:32 PM on Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

Thank you SerJR for your helpful advice

[This message edited by shafted77 at 8:32 AM, December 18th (Tuesday)]

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markyall ( New Member #37808) posted at 3:39 PM on Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

also found this helpful

thank you

Me:BH 43
Her:WS 37
two kids-still in school
Dday 052512

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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 5:23 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:35 PM on Monday, December 24th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 12:58 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

bumpity-bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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mountainmomma ( Member #34388) posted at 6:26 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Bumpity bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 7:59 PM on Thursday, January 10th, 2013

bump

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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 10:36 PM on Friday, January 11th, 2013

bump

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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 2:18 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2013

bump

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thisissogross ( Member #30294) posted at 5:24 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2013



i edit frequently because i have to

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Rella ( Member #21136) posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2013

BUMP!

Eleven years later, I never could have imagined how much happier my life has turned out!

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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 5:46 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 3:17 PM on Sunday, January 27th, 2013

bump

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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:05 PM on Monday, January 28th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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exhausted lady ( Member #30217) posted at 5:26 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013

It's that time of year. Bump.

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

posts: 3171   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2010   ·   location: Colorado
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exhausted lady ( Member #30217) posted at 11:48 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

bumping again. We seem to have a lot of new members, (damn it, infidelity just keeps spreading) and I hope they read this.

E.L.

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

posts: 3171   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2010   ·   location: Colorado
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