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Just Found Out :
Tactical Primer

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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 9:29 PM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

bumped for newbies

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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icansurvive ( Member #29166) posted at 11:02 PM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

OMG! This was so helpful! I can relate to may of the things touched upon in this post. I'm going to the 180 right after this!

Me- BS 51
WH - 54
Together 11 years
Married 6
Kids - 4 grown adults (2 mine, 2 his)
Grandkids 3 with another one on the way

posts: 356   ·   registered: Jul. 28th, 2010
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 6:34 PM on Thursday, July 29th, 2010

bumped

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 5:37 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2010

bump.

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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lostsuol ( Member #13706) posted at 7:22 PM on Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

just because...

Still a struggle...

posts: 815   ·   registered: Feb. 20th, 2007   ·   location: Canada
id 4726375
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 6:21 AM on Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Bumping for the new people.

Take care of you!

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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Jen ( Member #26584) posted at 4:49 AM on Sunday, August 8th, 2010

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 8:40 AM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
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redrock ( Member #21538) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010

- for Awesome

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3460   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:43 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, September 15th, 2010

bump.

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
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sherman ( Member #27018) posted at 12:55 PM on Saturday, September 25th, 2010

Bump.

17 years out from Dday, but sometimes I still feel stuck in the Wayback Machine.

posts: 561   ·   registered: Jan. 2nd, 2010   ·   location: South Central US
id 4820665
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Nicole5 ( Member #17794) posted at 1:03 PM on Monday, September 27th, 2010

bump

divorced my WH on Nov 4, 2011
(see my profile for "the story")



posts: 338   ·   registered: Jan. 17th, 2008   ·   location: TX
id 4823202
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diditagn ( Member #3433) posted at 6:28 PM on Tuesday, September 28th, 2010

Bump

Happy people don't have the best things, they make the best with what they have.

posts: 1556   ·   registered: Feb. 12th, 2004   ·   location: WI
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ppldontchange ( Member #29703) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, September 29th, 2010

Thank you for taking time to post this.

BW 37 (me); WH 39(him)
Daughters 9 & 17 prev. marriage (me)
Married 5/2010
TT d-day 9/5/10 & 10/1/10
Status: Reconciled

posts: 218   ·   registered: Sep. 27th, 2010
id 4827331
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 6:58 PM on Friday, October 8th, 2010

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 7:22 AM on Sunday, October 10th, 2010

Bumping for all the new people here.

Take care of you. Eat. Sleep. Talk to your physicians about medication. Exercise.

You will get through.

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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CanISurvive ( Member #29788) posted at 9:39 AM on Monday, October 11th, 2010

Bump

D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity

posts: 330   ·   registered: Oct. 6th, 2010   ·   location: California
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CryingGreenEyes ( Member #24753) posted at 11:59 PM on Monday, October 11th, 2010

I read this over every once in awhile to remind me of what I need to do should my FWH make the choice to have another A. It is very, VERY valuable advice.

"The truth shall set you free... but first it's really gonna piss you off!"
"Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house you can never tell."

posts: 1576   ·   registered: Jul. 9th, 2009   ·   location: United States
id 4847952
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