SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 9:29 PM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
icansurvive ( member #29166) posted at 11:02 PM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010
OMG! This was so helpful! I can relate to may of the things touched upon in this post. I'm going to the 180 right after this!
Me- BS 51
WH - 54
Together 11 years
Married 6
Kids - 4 grown adults (2 mine, 2 his)
Grandkids 3 with another one on the way
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 6:34 PM on Thursday, July 29th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
annb ( member #22386) posted at 5:37 AM on Saturday, July 31st, 2010
bump. 
lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 7:22 PM on Wednesday, August 4th, 2010
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 6:21 AM on Saturday, August 7th, 2010
Bumping for the new people.
Take care of you!
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 4:49 AM on Sunday, August 8th, 2010
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 8:40 AM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010
redrock ( member #21538) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010
- for Awesome
I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)
socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:43 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, September 15th, 2010
socold ( member #17400) posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, September 23rd, 2010
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
sherman ( member #27018) posted at 12:55 PM on Saturday, September 25th, 2010
17 years out from Dday, but sometimes I still feel stuck in the Wayback Machine.
Nicole5 ( member #17794) posted at 1:03 PM on Monday, September 27th, 2010
divorced my WH on Nov 4, 2011
(see my profile for "the story")
diditagn ( member #3433) posted at 6:28 PM on Tuesday, September 28th, 2010
Happy people don't have the best things, they make the best with what they have.
ppldontchange ( member #29703) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, September 29th, 2010
Thank you for taking time to post this.
BW 37 (me); WH 39(him)
Daughters 9 & 17 prev. marriage (me)
Married 5/2010
TT d-day 9/5/10 & 10/1/10
Status: Reconciled
AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:58 PM on Friday, October 8th, 2010
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 7:22 AM on Sunday, October 10th, 2010
Bumping for all the new people here.
Take care of you. Eat. Sleep. Talk to your physicians about medication. Exercise.
You will get through.
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
CanISurvive ( member #29788) posted at 9:39 AM on Monday, October 11th, 2010
D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)
Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.
I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)
PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity
CryingGreenEyes ( member #24753) posted at 11:59 PM on Monday, October 11th, 2010
I read this over every once in awhile to remind me of what I need to do should my FWH make the choice to have another A. It is very, VERY valuable advice.
"The truth shall set you free... but first it's really gonna piss you off!"
"Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house you can never tell."
