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EasyDoesIt ( Member #29514) posted at 12:14 AM on Thursday, November 18th, 2010

bump

Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

posts: 3756   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2010   ·   location: Georgia
id 4911829
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toby ( Member #10337) posted at 3:58 AM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010

Bump....for abyss.

posts: 1760   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2006   ·   location: Texas
id 4920915
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Dagny07 ( Member #16928) posted at 4:09 PM on Wednesday, November 24th, 2010

Bumping

Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

posts: 862   ·   registered: Nov. 8th, 2007   ·   location: Midwest
id 4923857
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SuspiciousWife ( Member #18108) posted at 2:37 AM on Sunday, November 28th, 2010

bumping again!

Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

posts: 557   ·   registered: Feb. 8th, 2008   ·   location: East Coast
id 4928680
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 4:32 PM on Saturday, December 4th, 2010

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4941050
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:04 PM on Tuesday, December 7th, 2010

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4946865
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:50 PM on Friday, December 10th, 2010

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4953150
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 5:16 PM on Sunday, December 12th, 2010

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Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 4955293
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EasyDoesIt ( Member #29514) posted at 3:47 AM on Monday, December 13th, 2010

bumpity bump bump

Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

posts: 3756   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2010   ·   location: Georgia
id 4956095
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isadora ( Member #29130) posted at 7:12 PM on Monday, December 20th, 2010

bump

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

posts: 4736   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Back home again in Indiana
id 4969444
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tammyjean100 ( Member #28159) posted at 4:08 AM on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

bump

You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford

posts: 2273   ·   registered: Apr. 6th, 2010   ·   location: Capital District, New York
id 4973962
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september7 ( Member #29929) posted at 2:03 PM on Saturday, December 25th, 2010

Bump. Thank you for this positive topic. I feel better already.

D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me in not the best circumstances, but we're paying for medical school for one kid and college the other.

posts: 156   ·   registered: Oct. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Florida
id 4977030
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Sofia58 ( Member #30415) posted at 2:54 PM on Monday, December 27th, 2010

Great advice. Thanks.

D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."

posts: 185   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2010
id 4979238
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cass ( Member #24261) posted at 4:50 PM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010

bumping

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
id 4982618
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gma56 ( Member #19595) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010

Up it goes !

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

posts: 20502   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2008   ·   location: Closer to where I want to be..
id 4983588
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4myheart ( Member #21015) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010

Bump so many people need it

"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

posts: 551   ·   registered: Sep. 11th, 2008   ·   location: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
id 4984902
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gma56 ( Member #19595) posted at 10:52 PM on Saturday, January 1st, 2011

Bump it for New Years fallout.

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

posts: 20502   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2008   ·   location: Closer to where I want to be..
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Sofia58 ( Member #30415) posted at 8:23 PM on Monday, January 3rd, 2011

Bump!

D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."

posts: 185   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2010
id 4991911
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 11:41 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

Another bump.

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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momma3times ( Member #30092) posted at 8:31 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011

Bump it!! Great sound advice!!

Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11

posts: 76   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2010   ·   location: Southern part of Missouri
id 4996587
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