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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 4:12 AM on Sunday, January 30th, 2011

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5047568
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 10:17 AM on Monday, January 31st, 2011

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5049342
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5059553
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isadora ( Member #29130) posted at 3:16 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011

bump

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

posts: 4736   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Back home again in Indiana
id 5060520
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 6:05 AM on Sunday, February 6th, 2011

Bump for the new folks!

You will survive this!

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
id 5062138
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cdnmommy ( Member #30182) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011

Bump

Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing

posts: 1795   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2010
id 5065041
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5069215
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 8:22 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011

bump.

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5073897
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 2:17 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011

bumperfragilisticexpialidocious

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5075049
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011

Bumping again

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5079061
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 12:05 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5084193
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 4:59 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5088476
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 11:57 AM on Monday, February 21st, 2011

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5090783
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 6:49 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5096781
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 3:13 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5101034
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:40 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5105451
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 12:33 PM on Thursday, March 3rd, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5110610
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 9:32 PM on Saturday, March 5th, 2011

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5115532
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 12:16 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2011

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5117634
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bent44 ( Member #31386) posted at 4:05 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2011

Argh....and thank you! Sometimes this is all so hard to make sensee of, and your consice list really helped.

"If you marry a chicken, don't expect an eagle."


I don't know if my chicken will ever become an eagle. But rest assured, I'm going to be a phoenix. Nevermind that I am still in the ashes stage of the process.

Update...he

posts: 733   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2011   ·   location: California
id 5117973
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