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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

bumpety bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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NoNoNo ( Member #31091) posted at 12:52 AM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

Bloody Marvellous!

Thanks so much. I agree it should be in the healing library and always on page 1. Am pasting it into Word for my perusal as I work through the steps.

Thanks!

Me: BW
DD: 7 Jan 2011
OW: Former friend of a friend. Betrayed me on many levels.

posts: 79   ·   registered: Feb. 4th, 2011   ·   location: South UK
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5301917
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cdnmommy ( Member #30182) posted at 7:00 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

bump

Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing

posts: 1795   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2010
id 5311561
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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isadora ( Member #29130) posted at 6:06 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

bumping

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

posts: 4736   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Back home again in Indiana
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, July 7th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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jb3199 ( Member #27673) posted at 7:12 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2011

bump

BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married 28yrs.(together over 30yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day(s): Enough
Accepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14

posts: 3818   ·   registered: Feb. 21st, 2010   ·   location: northeast
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:54 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 4:28 AM on Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 2:29 AM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
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Rise_Above ( Member #23674) posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011

You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch

posts: 14226   ·   registered: Apr. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Chrys a lis
id 5348783
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Rise_Above ( Member #23674) posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011

You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch

posts: 14226   ·   registered: Apr. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Chrys a lis
id 5348786
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 2:15 AM on Friday, July 22nd, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 2:23 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2011

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 11:16 PM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
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bumbed ( Member #31024) posted at 11:31 PM on Friday, July 29th, 2011

bump for the new

I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening

posts: 471   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2011   ·   location: a better place in Michiagn
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MrsSprky99 ( Member #32895) posted at 5:29 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2011

This is a truly WONDERFUL post....thank you so much for taking the time to share it with all of us!

BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011

posts: 78   ·   registered: Jul. 26th, 2011   ·   location: Northern IL
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 7:16 PM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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