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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 3:47 PM on Friday, November 11th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5530305
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, November 19th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5542219
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 2:39 AM on Friday, November 25th, 2011

bumping

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 10:23 PM on Tuesday, November 29th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5557868
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 4:43 PM on Wednesday, November 30th, 2011

Good one for newbies.

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5559091
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cdnmommy ( Member #30182) posted at 8:03 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2011

Bump again for struggling_male.

Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing

posts: 1795   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2010
id 5561534
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 7:01 AM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5569313
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

bump

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5570201
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:09 AM on Saturday, December 10th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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emptyheart ( Member #18873) posted at 4:25 PM on Sunday, December 11th, 2011

bump

Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11, 2009

posts: 1143   ·   registered: Mar. 28th, 2008
id 5578695
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sudra ( Member #30143) posted at 4:04 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2011

bump

Me (BW) (58), Him(SAWH) (61)
Married 24 years, 1 son (22), 1 stepdaughter (30)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

posts: 1874   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2010
id 5579632
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 6:39 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2011

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5580483
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 6:13 AM on Friday, December 16th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5587556
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, December 18th, 2011

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
id 5590974
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Lost and Betraye ( Member #33988) posted at 4:41 AM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

bump

Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft

posts: 317   ·   registered: Nov. 22nd, 2011   ·   location: CA
id 5594090
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, December 23rd, 2011

bump.

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5599045
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unarmbears ( Member #7480) posted at 1:06 AM on Sunday, January 1st, 2012

bump

Happy New Year!

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 5:13 AM on Wednesday, January 4th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5617618
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:21 AM on Friday, January 6th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5621687
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 12:05 AM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5628349
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