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Tactical Primer

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LostinNO ( New Member #21771) posted at 1:43 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

I am sorry, I am new to this.

Where can I find this 180?

Thank you.

LostinNO

BS - 48
Her WS - 38
Married 12 years
D-Day 11/7/08
Divorce process has begun

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 SerJR (original poster Member #14993) posted at 1:44 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=256092

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

posts: 18506   ·   registered: Jun. 15th, 2007   ·   location: Further North than South
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Amberly744 ( Member #20943) posted at 6:45 PM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

bump

Humble by history, sadden by memorials, grateful to friends.

posts: 2588   ·   registered: Sep. 8th, 2008   ·   location: California
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thetruthwins ( Member #21722) posted at 8:04 PM on Thursday, November 27th, 2008

BUMP

Me BS age 40
Him WH age 41
Son age 5
ONS on 10/31, DDay 11/1 but problems with prior deceit, porn addiction, general compulsiveness. I wouldn't let him come home on DDay.
Update: He's in IC! Yay! Moved home 11/26, things are going great. Whew!

posts: 656   ·   registered: Nov. 21st, 2008   ·   location: the here and now
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redrock ( Member #21538) posted at 12:23 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008

Bumping

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3460   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
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Cloud ( Member #21049) posted at 3:40 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008

SerJr you are incredible!

Thanks for taking the time to put this into words. You covered everything.

This definitely needs to be in the Healing Library. What a great reference for the "newbies" and the "oldies" too.

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tru2u ( Member #21677) posted at 4:14 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008

Thank You!

You can't play on broken strings....James Morrison.
BS 35, WH 39, M 6y, together 10y
Kids- 2 baby boys, one baking.
D-Day#1 10/26/08 2 month EA/PA co-worker
11/25/08- and the trickle begins.......
Trying to R

posts: 222   ·   registered: Nov. 18th, 2008   ·   location: somewhere cold
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redrock ( Member #21538) posted at 10:36 PM on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008

Bumping

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3460   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
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philly172 ( Member #19024) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2008

thanks so much.. I really really needed to read that tonight!!

"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible

posts: 4874   ·   registered: Apr. 7th, 2008   ·   location: Not in Philly.. it's just a screen name :-)
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redrock ( Member #21538) posted at 1:01 PM on Thursday, December 18th, 2008

Bumping

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3460   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
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thetruthwins ( Member #21722) posted at 7:49 AM on Monday, December 29th, 2008

Bump for all the newbies.

Me BS age 40
Him WH age 41
Son age 5
ONS on 10/31, DDay 11/1 but problems with prior deceit, porn addiction, general compulsiveness. I wouldn't let him come home on DDay.
Update: He's in IC! Yay! Moved home 11/26, things are going great. Whew!

posts: 656   ·   registered: Nov. 21st, 2008   ·   location: the here and now
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hurtingstudent ( Member #17432) posted at 2:51 AM on Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

Bump back to the top!

If epilepsy has touched your life, or for more information visit:

for support & info: www.epilepsy.com
for info & research: www.epilepsyfoundation.com
to track seizures: www.trackseizures.com

posts: 4507   ·   registered: Dec. 18th, 2007   ·   location: indiana
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 4:09 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

bumping for the newly betrayed.

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justfoundout2 ( New Member #22219) posted at 6:15 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

thank you so much for this needed and insightful information. Dday was Christmas night. I am trying to read as much as possible to help with this roller coaster ride nightmare. Have been married 41 years. I will reread your article daily.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 11:08 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

bumpiddy

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 8:22 PM on Thursday, January 1st, 2009

bump

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gettingthrutoday ( Member #21365) posted at 7:48 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2009

bump for soccermom

Me BS 52
married 30 years
Ddays 10/20/08, 11/23/08, 3/09
Primary Love Language: Honesty
My top 5 needs: love, honesty, faithfulness, mutual respect, communication

posts: 382   ·   registered: Oct. 24th, 2008   ·   location: Southeastern US
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 4:49 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2009

***bump***

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gma56 ( Member #19595) posted at 8:18 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2009

Excellent !

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

posts: 20502   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2008   ·   location: Closer to where I want to be..
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 6:59 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2009

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
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