LostinNO ( new member #21771) posted at 1:43 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
I am sorry, I am new to this.
Where can I find this 180?
Thank you.
LostinNO
BS - 48
Her WS - 38
Married 12 years
D-Day 11/7/08
Divorce process has begun
SerJR (original poster member #14993) posted at 1:44 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=256092
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Amberly744 ( member #20943) posted at 6:45 PM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
Humble by history, sadden by memorials, grateful to friends.
thetruthwins ( member #21722) posted at 8:04 PM on Thursday, November 27th, 2008
Me BS age 40
Him WH age 41
Son age 5
ONS on 10/31, DDay 11/1 but problems with prior deceit, porn addiction, general compulsiveness. I wouldn't let him come home on DDay.
Update: He's in IC! Yay! Moved home 11/26, things are going great. Whew!
redrock ( member #21538) posted at 12:23 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008
I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)
Cloud ( member #21049) posted at 3:40 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008
SerJr you are incredible!
Thanks for taking the time to put this into words. You covered everything.
This definitely needs to be in the Healing Library. What a great reference for the "newbies" and the "oldies" too.
tru2u ( member #21677) posted at 4:14 PM on Monday, December 1st, 2008
Thank You!
You can't play on broken strings....James Morrison.
BS 35, WH 39, M 6y, together 10y
Kids- 2 baby boys, one baking.
D-Day#1 10/26/08 2 month EA/PA co-worker
11/25/08- and the trickle begins.......
Trying to R
redrock ( member #21538) posted at 10:36 PM on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008
I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)
philly172 ( member #19024) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2008
thanks so much.. I really really needed to read that tonight!!
"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible
redrock ( member #21538) posted at 1:01 PM on Thursday, December 18th, 2008
I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)
thetruthwins ( member #21722) posted at 7:49 AM on Monday, December 29th, 2008
Bump for all the newbies.
Me BS age 40
Him WH age 41
Son age 5
ONS on 10/31, DDay 11/1 but problems with prior deceit, porn addiction, general compulsiveness. I wouldn't let him come home on DDay.
Update: He's in IC! Yay! Moved home 11/26, things are going great. Whew!
hurtingstudent ( member #17432) posted at 2:51 AM on Tuesday, December 30th, 2008
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:09 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
bumping for the newly betrayed.
justfoundout2 ( new member #22219) posted at 6:15 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
thank you so much for this needed and insightful information. Dday was Christmas night. I am trying to read as much as possible to help with this roller coaster ride nightmare. Have been married 41 years. I will reread your article daily.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 11:08 PM on Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 8:22 PM on Thursday, January 1st, 2009
gettingthrutoday ( member #21365) posted at 7:48 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2009
Me BS 52
married 30 years
Ddays 10/20/08, 11/23/08, 3/09
Primary Love Language: Honesty
My top 5 needs: love, honesty, faithfulness, mutual respect, communication
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:49 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2009
***bump***
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 8:18 PM on Thursday, January 8th, 2009
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:59 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2009
