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sassylee ( Member #45766) posted at 7:53 PM on Friday, March 17th, 2017

Bumped for Jetrad

My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

posts: 11459   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 7811578
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:36 PM on Wednesday, April 12th, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7834600
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:29 AM on Saturday, May 20th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7869212
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StillLivin ( Member #40229) posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7883815
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CharliB ( Member #59007) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, June 9th, 2017

Very helpful post. Thanks

The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie could cost you everything

posts: 718   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2017
id 7886769
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:21 PM on Monday, June 19th, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7895574
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UpInTheAirNow ( Member #37777) posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, July 6th, 2017

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 7911006
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SydPom ( New Member #59247) posted at 7:22 PM on Tuesday, July 18th, 2017

Bump

posts: 28   ·   registered: Jun. 16th, 2017   ·   location: Australia
id 7922121
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Lovingmyselfmore ( Member #46119) posted at 8:12 PM on Saturday, August 5th, 2017

Bumping for the weekend!

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

posts: 1076   ·   registered: Dec. 29th, 2014
id 7938255
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, September 4th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7963692
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Jen ( Member #26584) posted at 11:06 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
id 7975315
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 8:43 PM on Saturday, September 23rd, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7980843
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:25 PM on Wednesday, October 18th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8001847
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:14 PM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8023506
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:31 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8038314
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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2017

Bump

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8992   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8044334
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:41 PM on Sunday, December 17th, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8049325
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 8:05 AM on Thursday, December 21st, 2017

Bump

Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8052318
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:23 PM on Tuesday, December 26th, 2017

Bump.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8055756
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:41 PM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2018

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8061076
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