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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 2:55 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2016

Only 8 days - this needs a bump....

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7582698
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:22 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7588366
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:51 AM on Monday, July 4th, 2016

For those who are just joining us.

I'm sorry you are here but am glad you found this safe and caring place.

Hang in there.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7597936
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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 8:12 PM on Wednesday, July 6th, 2016

BUMP

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7600359
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:03 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 10:06 PM on Monday, July 18th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:29 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:11 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 11:59 AM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 6:47 PM on Saturday, August 27th, 2016

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 7645666
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:34 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2016

Bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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hard_yards ( Member #23549) posted at 12:35 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 2:32 PM on Sunday, September 25th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7669781
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2016

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7678315
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:02 AM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:22 AM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2016

Bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 9:37 AM on Sunday, November 6th, 2016

Bumping

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7701945
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, November 15th, 2016

Busy time in JFO. Bumping again.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7707637
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 2:52 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016

bumping, hugs to all.

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 7718413
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 11:44 AM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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