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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 9:09 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 7744585
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Lovingmyselfmore ( Member #46119) posted at 3:25 AM on Sunday, January 8th, 2017

Bump

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

posts: 1076   ·   registered: Dec. 29th, 2014
id 7750705
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:48 AM on Monday, February 6th, 2017

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7777621
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heartbroken_kk ( Member #22722) posted at 7:26 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017

bump

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 7781795
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:32 AM on Tuesday, February 14th, 2017

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7784947
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 1:14 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2017

Bump

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7794698
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:20 AM on Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7827173
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:33 PM on Wednesday, April 12th, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7834595
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:29 PM on Sunday, May 7th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7857584
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 6:50 PM on Thursday, May 25th, 2017

Bumping for a newbie.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7874191
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StillLivin ( Member #40229) posted at 6:13 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7883813
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limitedenergy ( Member #59462) posted at 4:06 AM on Tuesday, July 4th, 2017

Some of this is in the library, but I found this to be helpful reading.

posts: 121   ·   registered: Jul. 2nd, 2017   ·   location: West Coast
id 7908169
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 11:28 PM on Saturday, July 22nd, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7926023
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Lovingmyselfmore ( Member #46119) posted at 8:10 PM on Saturday, August 5th, 2017

Bumping for the weekend!

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

posts: 1076   ·   registered: Dec. 29th, 2014
id 7938253
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, September 4th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7963691
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Jen ( Member #26584) posted at 11:05 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
id 7975313
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 8:43 PM on Saturday, September 23rd, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7980844
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:24 PM on Wednesday, October 18th, 2017

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8001846
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:13 PM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017

Bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8023505
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:32 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8038316
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