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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 5:32 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8038317
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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 1:59 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2017

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fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8992   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8044336
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worldofpotential ( Member #61244) posted at 9:19 AM on Tuesday, December 12th, 2017

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Me BW (41) WH (47)
ILYBINILWY August 2017 when he walked out
Wreckonciliation 2 weeks later
D-Day November 2017 (OW 25)
On the road to D since I am nobody's plan B

posts: 54   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2017
id 8045302
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:40 PM on Sunday, December 17th, 2017

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8049322
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MsCajunBelle ( New Member #60706) posted at 5:05 AM on Monday, December 18th, 2017

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posts: 40   ·   registered: Sep. 19th, 2017   ·   location: Louisiana
id 8049695
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 8:04 AM on Thursday, December 21st, 2017

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8052315
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:24 PM on Tuesday, December 26th, 2017

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8055760
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:40 PM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8061072
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 10:58 PM on Sunday, January 14th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8070873
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squid ( Member #57624) posted at 3:22 PM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018

Man, I wish I read this 11 months ago. Thank you, ThriveNotSurvive.

worldofpotential brought me here.

BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18

This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.

posts: 2582   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2017   ·   location: Central Florida
id 8071775
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:30 PM on Wednesday, January 31st, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8083079
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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 7:46 PM on Sunday, February 4th, 2018

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8086161
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 2:22 PM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8099233
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:49 PM on Saturday, March 3rd, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8108045
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sassylee ( Member #45766) posted at 6:38 PM on Monday, March 12th, 2018

Bumped for DWF

My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

posts: 11459   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 8113998
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squid ( Member #57624) posted at 8:38 PM on Thursday, March 15th, 2018

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BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18

This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.

posts: 2582   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2017   ·   location: Central Florida
id 8116621
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sassylee ( Member #45766) posted at 9:14 PM on Monday, April 2nd, 2018

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My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

posts: 11459   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 8130113
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sassylee ( Member #45766) posted at 3:54 AM on Wednesday, April 11th, 2018

Bumping

My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

posts: 11459   ·   registered: Nov. 29th, 2014   ·   location: 🇨🇦
id 8138109
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:13 PM on Wednesday, April 18th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26010   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8144518
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, May 1st, 2018

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8154661
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