Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 9:04 PM on Friday, October 30th, 2020
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:25 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:26 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:46 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021
bump
[This message edited by sisoon at 10:31 AM, June 18th (Friday)]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 2:26 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:10 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:45 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
ShockedAndShattered ( member #79685) posted at 8:50 PM on Friday, May 13th, 2022
Thank you so much for posting this!
BS(me):42 WH:43DDay 1- 9/11/21 EA 5+ yrs & lies TTDDay 2- 9/23/21 EA 2+ years & lies TTDDay 3- 10/17/21 EAs 1.5 yrs/5+ yrs TTDDay 4- 4/11/22 Conf PA w/1 EADDay 5- 8/2/22 Failed PolyDDay 6- 8/7/22 Whatever...
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 4:13 PM on Sunday, August 28th, 2022
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
QuitePossible ( member #80726) posted at 8:29 PM on Friday, September 2nd, 2022
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:30 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 2:14 PM on Tuesday, April 11th, 2023
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 11:09 AM on Monday, April 17th, 2023
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:09 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:04 PM on Tuesday, August 29th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:48 PM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
