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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 9:27 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2015

I carried a copy of this post with me for almost a year. I hope it helps someone else as much as it di me.

Hang in there.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7244525
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Tearsoflove ( Member #8271) posted at 9:19 PM on Tuesday, June 16th, 2015

Bump

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

posts: 6078   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: Southeast
id 7255087
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Notthevictem ( Member #44389) posted at 12:24 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2015

bump

BH: Me 37
WW: Her 41
DDAY Mar 2014

posts: 13360   ·   registered: Aug. 5th, 2014   ·   location: Florida
id 7255692
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sarahstar ( Member #43889) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2015

bump

posts: 216   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2014
id 7261930
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 10:27 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2015

The weekend can be hard and holidays can be unbearable. I hope these posts help someone make it through another day.

Hang in there.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7272859
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2015

bump

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 7314681
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StillLivin ( Member #40229) posted at 5:29 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7325797
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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 2:58 PM on Sunday, September 6th, 2015

BUMP

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7338403
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:19 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7362968
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 5:43 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015

bump

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7374605
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2015

bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7383263
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Yooper ( Member #49913) posted at 4:07 AM on Saturday, October 31st, 2015

Bump

Me: BS (58)
Him: (57)
Married 24.5 years. Divorced.

posts: 168   ·   registered: Oct. 11th, 2015   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 7385554
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 10:13 AM on Saturday, November 7th, 2015

I'm doin' the mass bump again for all of those who just found us.

I'm sorry you are here but I am glad you found us. There are a lot of smart people around here who have been exactly where you are now, know that you are not alone. Read all you can, post as often as you need and take care of yourself.

Hang in there.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7390826
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 3:18 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2015

Bumping for newbies.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7402458
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 3:48 PM on Saturday, December 5th, 2015

Bump.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 25988   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7412925
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2015

Bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7415754
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yearsofpain25 ( Member #42012) posted at 10:37 PM on Thursday, December 10th, 2015

bump

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 7417723
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:35 AM on Saturday, December 12th, 2015

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7419075
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mchercheur ( Member #37735) posted at 4:05 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015

bump

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7430646
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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2016

Bump.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

posts: 4033   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2007   ·   location: UK
id 7436392
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