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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 11:19 PM on Saturday, March 10th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5736591
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5751803
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 3:31 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5769746
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jo2love ( Member #31528) posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, April 4th, 2012

bump

posts: 51033   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2011
id 5775067
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 3:55 AM on Monday, April 9th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5781888
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SuperDuperWonderboy ( Member #34716) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, April 10th, 2012

My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.

posts: 1356   ·   registered: Feb. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Everett
id 5784463
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 2:16 PM on Sunday, April 15th, 2012

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5792071
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WakingFromADream ( Member #33934) posted at 7:03 PM on Thursday, April 19th, 2012

Bump

Me(37) DS(9) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.

posts: 1159   ·   registered: Nov. 16th, 2011
id 5799517
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 2:36 PM on Friday, April 20th, 2012

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 5800832
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 1:33 PM on Friday, April 27th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5811592
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, April 30th, 2012

Bump for noideawhattodo

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5815513
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 9:02 PM on Thursday, May 10th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5830739
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, May 24th, 2012

Bump!

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5849953
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Lucy44 ( New Member #34904) posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, May 24th, 2012

Thank u o much for taking the time to write these words!!!!

It's perfect! :-)

Thank you!

I just need to listen to myself saying them out loud! :-)

posts: 20   ·   registered: Feb. 24th, 2012
id 5850475
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Fighting2Survive ( Member #28410) posted at 9:09 PM on Friday, June 8th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5873604
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 2:50 PM on Thursday, June 14th, 2012

Bump for RIP

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5881975
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:06 PM on Tuesday, June 19th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5889184
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2012

Bumping for takingtime

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5892792
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itsraining ( New Member #35865) posted at 8:16 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2012

Thanks for this and for all those who "bump" great advice for those of us who are brand new and need this advice.

posts: 21   ·   registered: Jun. 16th, 2012
id 5893267
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