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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 12:31 AM on Monday, September 17th, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6021069
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Spelljean ( Member #35624) posted at 9:55 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Bump

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

posts: 1037   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2012   ·   location: California
id 6029711
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 9:35 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012

bump

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6039969
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:12 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6051436
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( Member #18449) posted at 9:10 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012

weekend bump.

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6059811
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012

Bump for Newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6071135
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 1:50 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 6097240
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lknup ( Member #37433) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

thanks for bumping. I need to read this stuff even when it is hard!

Me: BS
He: WS
DD fall 2012, Divorced fall 2014, he quickly married OW

posts: 257   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2012
id 6097322
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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 12:22 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6105087
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fallingquickly ( Member #36599) posted at 12:54 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012

Great post. Wish I had read it sooner.

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

posts: 468   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2012
id 6105118
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 4:53 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6112143
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 2:38 PM on Tuesday, November 27th, 2012

bump for beforeandafter

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6117788
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012

bumpin'

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6135121
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

Bump

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6145723
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 5:23 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6149932
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster Member #30079) posted at 4:34 PM on Monday, December 24th, 2012

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6151988
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6160686
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013

one more time...

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6163374
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mountainmomma ( Member #34388) posted at 6:25 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Bumpily bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

posts: 180   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: U.K
id 6166256
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 2:59 AM on Saturday, January 12th, 2013

Bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6173689
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