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isadora ( Member #29130) posted at 7:09 PM on Monday, December 20th, 2010

bump

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

posts: 4736   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2010   ·   location: Back home again in Indiana
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Holly-Isis ( Member #13447) posted at 6:50 PM on Saturday, December 25th, 2010

bump- our little gift to newbies this Christmas day. You're not alone. You are worth more. You do have a say.

"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

posts: 11713   ·   registered: Jan. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Just a fool in limbo
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SerJR ( Member #14993) posted at 12:17 PM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

posts: 18506   ·   registered: Jun. 15th, 2007   ·   location: Further North than South
id 4982179
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4myheart ( Member #21015) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010

bump dity bump

"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

posts: 551   ·   registered: Sep. 11th, 2008   ·   location: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
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FeelUnloved ( Member #29404) posted at 3:29 AM on Sunday, January 2nd, 2011

bump

posts: 198   ·   registered: Aug. 23rd, 2010
id 4988842
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4myheart ( Member #21015) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011

bump

"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

posts: 551   ·   registered: Sep. 11th, 2008   ·   location: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 1:23 PM on Thursday, January 6th, 2011

Bumpity bumpbumpbump Humpty bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 4997828
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lostsuol ( Member #13706) posted at 3:01 AM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011

ditto!

Still a struggle...

posts: 815   ·   registered: Feb. 20th, 2007   ·   location: Canada
id 5001975
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knockedsideways ( Member #29859) posted at 11:53 PM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011

Bumping up

Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

posts: 166   ·   registered: Oct. 15th, 2010   ·   location: Europe
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knockedsideways ( Member #29859) posted at 11:59 PM on Saturday, January 8th, 2011

Great help thanks

Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

posts: 166   ·   registered: Oct. 15th, 2010   ·   location: Europe
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justsoshocked ( Member #24980) posted at 2:28 PM on Sunday, January 9th, 2011

bumping for newbies

Me, 42 BW
Him, 39, FWH
D-day: 4th of July 2009.
Three kids, 2,5,and 7
Still in R...so far, so good.
Living my life...loving my kids....even enjoying my M again...:)

posts: 2168   ·   registered: Jul. 28th, 2009   ·   location: SC
id 5004250
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 4:24 AM on Monday, January 10th, 2011

Bumpage

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5005597
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Mrs.Confused ( Member #30485) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011

[This message edited by kdny at 5:27 PM, January 13th (Thursday)]

It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. ~ Rose Kennedy ~

posts: 351   ·   registered: Dec. 21st, 2010   ·   location: USA
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 9:31 AM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2011

bumpity

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5010579
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painfulordeal ( New Member #30795) posted at 9:35 PM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2011

Thank you so much for this post. I am new here and have clung to every word I have read and have suggested this site to many of my friends.

This has helped my with the pain more than I can ever express.

So here it is BUMP!

42 and Riding Solo

posts: 2   ·   registered: Jan. 12th, 2011   ·   location: Georgia
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nooneeverthought ( Member #20157) posted at 5:03 PM on Wednesday, January 19th, 2011

bump

it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

posts: 8494   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2008
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 3:49 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2011

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:20 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011

Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
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southsidecali ( Member #22752) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011

BUMPING TO ADD TO MY LIST

posts: 989   ·   registered: Feb. 5th, 2009   ·   location: CA
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hurttothebone ( Member #30767) posted at 4:17 AM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011

bump

posts: 111   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2011   ·   location: PA
id 5031528
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