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Jen ( Member #26584) posted at 3:23 AM on Wednesday, November 3rd, 2010

newbie bump

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
id 4885415
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 12:19 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

me too

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4896459
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Cee64D ( Member #21836) posted at 2:25 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Copied and saved.

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 4896652
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lulykr ( Member #29697) posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

This is so helpful. A giant heartfelt thank you for putting this together.

Love

Becca

posts: 589   ·   registered: Sep. 26th, 2010   ·   location: Gainesville FL
id 4897117
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bufffalo ( Member #21854) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 4899322
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takilasunrise ( Member #29786) posted at 4:21 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

Marking for future reference for myself.......thanks!

BW - Me, 49 years old
WH - Him, 51 years old)
D-Day July 2010 (several D-days to follow)
Divorced February 7, 2012

Denial isn't the way to forgiveness. The Karma for screwing over a good girl is the Bitch you end up with.

posts: 980   ·   registered: Oct. 6th, 2010   ·   location: WI
id 4899331
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hard_yards ( Member #23549) posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2010

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
id 4901316
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bigpicture3236 ( Member #27861) posted at 12:24 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010

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If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

posts: 3607   ·   registered: Mar. 7th, 2010   ·   location: Michigan
id 4905552
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bigpicture3236 ( Member #27861) posted at 12:24 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010

bump

If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

posts: 3607   ·   registered: Mar. 7th, 2010   ·   location: Michigan
id 4905553
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willthiseverend ( Member #25107) posted at 11:54 AM on Monday, November 15th, 2010

Bump

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

posts: 454   ·   registered: Aug. 9th, 2009
id 4906770
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 6:19 PM on Monday, November 15th, 2010

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 4907335
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 3:49 AM on Wednesday, November 17th, 2010

Bumpin for newbies!

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 4910199
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 3:24 PM on Friday, November 26th, 2010

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 4926530
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ray-ray ( Member #29940) posted at 9:17 AM on Sunday, November 28th, 2010

Essential reads for people new to this hell.

So many roads

posts: 777   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2010
id 4928947
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, November 29th, 2010

bump

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 4931249
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 9:15 AM on Friday, December 3rd, 2010

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 4938500
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, December 7th, 2010

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4946873
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 11:49 PM on Friday, December 10th, 2010

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
id 4953145
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Holly-Isis ( Member #13447) posted at 1:02 AM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

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"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

posts: 11713   ·   registered: Jan. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Just a fool in limbo
id 4957734
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ray-ray ( Member #29940) posted at 3:02 AM on Friday, December 17th, 2010

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So many roads

posts: 777   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2010
id 4963834
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