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Jen ( Member #26584) posted at 4:50 AM on Sunday, August 8th, 2010

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
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phoenix_vs ( Member #29193) posted at 5:13 AM on Friday, August 13th, 2010

Bump. These are so well written and thought out. There is a lot of healing power in these words.

I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.

Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.

posts: 371   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2010   ·   location: Great Falls Montana
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willthiseverend ( Member #25107) posted at 6:48 PM on Saturday, August 14th, 2010

bump

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

posts: 454   ·   registered: Aug. 9th, 2009
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Will Not Be Brok ( Member #21553) posted at 9:14 PM on Thursday, August 19th, 2010

This topic is not only good for the Newbies! Thanks!

Faith is the bird that feels the light and sings while the dawn is still dark.

posts: 539   ·   registered: Nov. 7th, 2008   ·   location: Catskills, New York
id 4753288
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influx ( Member #13092) posted at 10:23 PM on Thursday, August 19th, 2010

Thank you for this.

Me: BW
Him: WH
In R, doing good as far as I can tell.

But, that's just me...

You just gotta BELIEVE

Sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug...

posts: 1755   ·   registered: Dec. 30th, 2006
id 4753422
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worriedNow ( Member #29320) posted at 12:33 AM on Friday, August 20th, 2010

Thanks for posting this! It helped me more than you know! So much valuable insight!!!

posts: 353   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2010
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tryinginmi ( Member #29358) posted at 6:24 AM on Saturday, August 21st, 2010

I'm so glad I just read this again. Now all I have to do is stay strong.

Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!

DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA

posts: 1093   ·   registered: Aug. 18th, 2010   ·   location: Michigan
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Lotsa ( Member #28078) posted at 6:11 AM on Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

bump

posts: 881   ·   registered: Mar. 29th, 2010
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redrock ( Member #21538) posted at 4:52 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010

Bumping

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3460   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
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cass ( Member #24261) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

bumping again

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
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knutz ( Member #28877) posted at 9:46 PM on Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Bumping for Newbies

Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir

posts: 265   ·   registered: Jun. 24th, 2010   ·   location: New England
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Itisnotadream ( Member #28515) posted at 6:38 PM on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Bump

Me: BS; Her: WW
Married 19 Yrs, Son 17.
DDay (1) 5-18-10
DDay (2) 7-8-10
DDay (3) 7-18-10 I could take no more.
Attempted R. R was false, she was lying.
She moved out 7-30-10.
She chose to move out rather than work on our marriage.

posts: 132   ·   registered: May. 13th, 2010   ·   location: California
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cass ( Member #24261) posted at 12:20 PM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

bumping to keep it on page one

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 9:51 PM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2010

Bumping for newbies.

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 4801988
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 9:29 PM on Sunday, September 19th, 2010

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
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socold ( Member #17400) posted at 10:30 PM on Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

posts: 2587   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2007   ·   location: in a van down by the river
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Edie ( Member #26133) posted at 8:12 PM on Monday, October 4th, 2010

Bump

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
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Dagny07 ( Member #16928) posted at 8:28 PM on Thursday, October 7th, 2010

Bump

Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

posts: 862   ·   registered: Nov. 8th, 2007   ·   location: Midwest
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CanISurvive ( Member #29788) posted at 9:40 AM on Friday, October 8th, 2010

Too good not to Bump.

D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity

posts: 330   ·   registered: Oct. 6th, 2010   ·   location: California
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cass ( Member #24261) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, October 9th, 2010

bump

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
id 4844654
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