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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:33 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014

bump for weekend

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7033136
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 11:02 PM on Monday, December 8th, 2014

Great update. All the important links too.

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 7035559
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014

Bump again.

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 7036149
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Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 3:57 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this great post!!!!!!

D-Day: 11/10/2014

posts: 69   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2014
id 7039591
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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 4:10 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014

These are great pieces of advice to help us all. Thank you for bumping this.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

posts: 3196   ·   registered: Dec. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 7039603
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Remember ( new member #46025) posted at 3:22 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014

Bump.

Me: 33
Her: 27
D-Day: 12/16/2014
Status: Trying to find my way again

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=548985

posts: 16   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2014
id 7047985
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:28 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7048681
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:17 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7054032
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:59 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7065266
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 6:52 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2106   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 7069946
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:02 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7073800
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:22 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7082962
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015

bump

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

posts: 5670   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 7084894
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:27 AM on Thursday, January 22nd, 2015

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7088027
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:48 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015

bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5978   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7096787
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:18 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7101312
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brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 4:32 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015

bump

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

posts: 2111   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2010   ·   location: Northwesten US
id 7109457
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devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015

bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post

Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

posts: 5135   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2014   ·   location: Central USA
id 7112903
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:35 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7125757
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:29 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7142561
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