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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 11:13 PM on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4466774
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 8:26 PM on Friday, March 12th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4470718
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lilac18 ( Member #25180) posted at 10:24 PM on Friday, March 12th, 2010

bump

Me/BW 45
WH 35

DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein

posts: 452   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Texas
id 4470955
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lost_in_toronto ( Member #25395) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, March 15th, 2010

bump.

Me: BS/45
Him: WS/42
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 21 years.
Reconciled.

posts: 1806   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2009   ·   location: not toronto anymore
id 4475262
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mplpmom ( Member #27266) posted at 10:16 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Bump

Me - BW (36)
Him - WH (35)
M - 7 years, together 11
DD - 5, DS - 2
DDay - 12/26/09
R is an on again off again ride and I am starting to feel queasy.

posts: 82   ·   registered: Jan. 17th, 2010
id 4481467
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 10:35 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4488244
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ThriveNotSurvive ( Member #22093) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

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Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie

Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.

posts: 1582   ·   registered: Dec. 18th, 2008   ·   location: Las Vegas
id 4489487
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whiteflower99 ( Member #13937) posted at 9:07 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

Bump for new members

What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.

posts: 2187   ·   registered: Mar. 13th, 2007   ·   location: Not Lothlorien
id 4492198
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 2:20 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4495514
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 1:59 PM on Saturday, March 27th, 2010

btt

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 4497495
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 4:28 PM on Sunday, March 28th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4498947
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luvbug0915 ( Member #22934) posted at 3:15 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010

***BUMP***

For crisisrecovery

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

posts: 1239   ·   registered: Feb. 20th, 2009   ·   location: Metro Atlanta
id 4500256
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 3:30 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4500284
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AttemptStrength ( Member #27947) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010

Maybe this should just get stickied at the top of this forum?

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 4500290
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katiej ( Member #14724) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010

Bump

First d-day Oct. '06. 3 more after that.
He is working hard. We are R.
2015: He didn't work hard enough. Back again and this time with a diagnosed SA. Living in the "in between" and not yet leaving due to a number of reasons.

posts: 496   ·   registered: May. 23rd, 2007
id 4500795
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 7:04 PM on Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4502683
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SuspiciousWife ( Member #18108) posted at 5:55 AM on Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Bumping

Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

posts: 557   ·   registered: Feb. 8th, 2008   ·   location: East Coast
id 4506021
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lilac18 ( Member #25180) posted at 10:23 PM on Sunday, April 4th, 2010

bump

Me/BW 45
WH 35

DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein

posts: 452   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Texas
id 4511705
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SummerBlues ( Member #25626) posted at 2:40 PM on Monday, April 5th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4512519
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fossilburner ( Member #28122) posted at 9:05 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

bump

"The love for the AP cannot be real, when all you see are the best of them, in secret moments. You don't see the real person. The love is "romantic love" - not the kind of love that lasts." - Mrs Panda

posts: 57   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2010
id 4515181
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