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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8741050
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:53 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8759735
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8764305
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:29 PM on Thursday, January 5th, 2023

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8772199
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:26 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8778428
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8794685
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, August 29th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8805897
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:50 PM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8814439
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:47 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8821099
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, March 4th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8827173
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:11 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8833416
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8835301
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Sunnycott ( new member #84714) posted at 7:58 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024

Great pis..sadly my WH has done none/all..rug sweeping ..how long do you give them? To pull their head out of their backside? ? I'm done as the BS

posts: 18   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2024   ·   location: Uk
id 8835318
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024

Great pis..sadly my WH has done none/all..rug sweeping ..how long do you give them? To pull their head out of their backside? ? I'm done as the BS

That is dependent upon you and your situation. Some people give very little time and others can waffle back and forth for some time.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8835324
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:21 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8841381
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, September 21st, 2024

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30529   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8849224
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:37 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8850018
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:00 AM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8853133
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:10 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8855460
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2024

Bump.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 4001   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8856497
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