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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 4:38 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

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posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6338021
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AFrayedKnot ( Member #36622) posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013

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BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
id 6351334
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 12:33 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

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posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
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Jennifer99 ( Member #39551) posted at 4:51 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I wish there was a way to bookmark sites WITHIN SI so that I could save this one without having it on a computer anywhere.

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Lyonesse ( Member #32943) posted at 5:06 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I don't know of a way to bookmark threads internally, but you do have a private journal function. Maybe you could keep a list of useful threads there for your reference?

Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
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Jennifer99 ( Member #39551) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Check that out! Didn't see that before. Thank you.

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Lyonesse ( Member #32943) posted at 5:29 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

You're welcome.

Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
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Jennifer99 ( Member #39551) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

I want to print this for my purse.

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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 3:19 PM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:49 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:02 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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AFrayedKnot ( Member #36622) posted at 2:14 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013

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BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
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AFrayedKnot ( Member #36622) posted at 3:52 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013

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BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
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Thiscantbhapning ( New Member #39601) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013

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BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."

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Broken6 ( Member #40347) posted at 4:02 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

So glad I found this to tonight. This is exactly the state we are in right now. He says he wants to move forward and wonders why I keep bringing A up. I am still searching for answers and he gives me same pat answer 'I don't know'. Anyway, this is helpful and I think I will print and show it to him. Bump it to top so I hope it will help someone else too. Thank you.

The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.

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jjct ( Member #17484) posted at 7:17 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

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posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:10 AM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

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ladies_first ( Member #24643) posted at 12:24 AM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013

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"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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