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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 12:59 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

bumping in the new year

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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kernel ( Member #27035) posted at 2:05 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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mountainmomma ( Member #34388) posted at 6:22 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Bumpity bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

posts: 180   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: U.K
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 8:00 PM on Thursday, January 10th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 10:37 PM on Friday, January 11th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 2:18 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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thisissogross ( Member #30294) posted at 5:23 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2013



i edit frequently because i have to

posts: 364   ·   registered: Dec. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: southern us
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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 5:49 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 3:17 PM on Sunday, January 27th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:05 PM on Monday, January 28th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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MonsterBride ( Member #37899) posted at 11:20 PM on Monday, January 28th, 2013

love this!

Me: BW, 36
Him: WH, 39, serial disappointment
Crimes: secret girlfriends, strippers
Status: preparing for divorce

posts: 86   ·   registered: Dec. 25th, 2012
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 7:08 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

Bumpin' for newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6198041
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 7:07 PM on Friday, February 1st, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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wouldbewhere ( Member #38221) posted at 9:08 PM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2013

This is so AWESOME!!!!

Reconciling wasn't an option for me, but this is something everyone should read.

ME-51
STBXWH-SOB-44 A W/Ho-Worker
Married 16 1/2 yrs
DD 9/29/2012 Left 9/29/2012
Filled 10/14/2012
We all meet our maker. When my file is opened to be read, before I cross the pearly gates. I'm sure glad it won't say "I cheated on

posts: 148   ·   registered: Jan. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: The West Coast
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 6:11 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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exhausted lady ( Member #30217) posted at 7:41 AM on Thursday, February 7th, 2013

bumpity bump

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

posts: 3171   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2010   ·   location: Colorado
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 4:00 AM on Saturday, February 9th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, February 13th, 2013

newbees!

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
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annb ( Member #22386) posted at 12:08 AM on Friday, February 15th, 2013

bump

posts: 11257   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 8:31 PM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013

Bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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