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Just Found Out :
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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 2:00 AM on Wednesday, September 9th, 2015

Great advice. Almost WAL like . Bumping.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

posts: 5786   ·   registered: Dec. 2nd, 2011
id 7340519
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 8:17 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7362965
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015

bump

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7374606
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caniforgive ( New Member #49974) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2015

Thank you for this post. It helped me calm down and think about myself.

posts: 5   ·   registered: Oct. 17th, 2015   ·   location: MD
id 7377639
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 10:04 AM on Saturday, November 7th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7390822
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 mchercheur (original poster Member #37735) posted at 4:04 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015

bump

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 7430645
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JRod ( Member #50935) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015

Thank you for taking the time to post this! As a Newbie, I am struggling, but folks like you make it easier.

Me: BH 55
Her: WW 34
Together: 8 years, DD-7
DDay: November 14, 2015
Confrontation: December 17, 2015 leads to TT
Current status: Attempting R with MC
"Someday, everything is gonna be smooth like a rhapsody, when I paint my masterpie

posts: 76   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2015   ·   location: Dallas
id 7430866
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 12:13 AM on Tuesday, January 19th, 2016

Bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7452675
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7460551
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 1:57 AM on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, February 17th, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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Stillcoping71 ( Member #51661) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2016

Great post. I can relate and appreciate you taking the time to write this and share.

Married 13 years
Second marriage for both of us
LTA- 3 1/2 years
D-day- 10/2015
Me: 45
WS: 51
5 kids

posts: 258   ·   registered: Feb. 4th, 2016
id 7483937
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LinC37160 ( Member #50603) posted at 7:55 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2016

Thanks

BS(me) 57
WH 57
3 grown kids
3 grandchildren
M: 38 years
D-Day: 10/26/2015

posts: 69   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2015
id 7483966
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 9:25 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2016

bump

posts: 10000   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 7486438
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Fiera ( New Member #51900) posted at 12:26 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2016

I agree with Caniforgive.

This post did calm me down from yet another morning of crying. I do need to focus on myself.

BW (me) 49. WH 48. M 4/18/03.
2 young sons; 3 older sons in their 20s mine from first M.
DD/confrontation 1/20/16.
EA/PA "on/off" (he says) since 2008.
OW married, 2 sons same age as ours, coworker/family friend.
TT continues; WH won'

posts: 4   ·   registered: Feb. 19th, 2016   ·   location: North Carolina USA
id 7486917
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Emotionalhell ( Member #39902) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2016

Wish I would of seen this post a long time ago.

Bumping

Me BS x2. 50Divorced WH #1Currently in limbo (with wayward #2)Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018

posts: 1736   ·   registered: Jul. 22nd, 2013
id 7489661
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TheFallbackPlan4 ( Member #48470) posted at 7:01 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2016

Great questions for BS to reflect on.

Thank you for posting!

Me: 40
Serial cheating XWBF: (ch2116) 42
2 kids of my own, 1 with him

posts: 127   ·   registered: Jul. 2nd, 2015
id 7492335
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Shatteredhearts ( Member #51283) posted at 6:19 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2016

Amazing post. Thank you for sharing!

I don't need a life that's normal, that's way too far away. But something next to normal that would be okay.

BS (me):30
WH:33
Porn addiction for 14 years (found out day after we wed)
DDay1 EA 8/2
DDay2 EA, same COW 1/10

posts: 78   ·   registered: Jan. 12th, 2016
id 7492744
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 6:01 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016

BUMP

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
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minusone ( Member #50175) posted at 6:59 PM on Monday, March 21st, 2016

bump

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8353   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7508560
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